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迎接2012...

2012-01-16T17:16:00.007+08:00

很久没有blogging了... 是很忙... 工作上... 生活上... 都忙...

回顾2011年... 我和老公一起迈入30大关但是心情却是大不同... 他继续升值, 我已开始贬值... 有点难过... 太不公平了~
YY和MM也长大了不少, YY 已经上学一年了, 戒diaper成功(除了晚上还没戒), 看到他在Year End Concert表演Hawaii草裙舞和朗诵诗歌, 真的很欣慰... 很感动...

MM也很乖巧可爱, 会说很多话, 可是对于学习ABC不是很热衷... 两个月前终于戒奶成功, 我终于可以一觉到天明了(after so many years). 不过我打算到两岁半才给她上学...

偶尔想到没能成为housewife来陪伴他们... 还是会有小遗憾. 庆幸的是两个瓜还是很亲近我...
工作上, 我终于熬出头了... 升上team leader... 呵呵! 进公司的前3年, 因为三年抱两, 工作表现多少有点影响. 去年开始拼, 加上机会来了, 贵人帮忙... 老板总算是注意到我了... 之前和我的女同事聊过, 我们一致认为生孩子这事, 严重影响女性的事业... 要嘛, 20出头早生完, 收工拼事业... 不然就拼到manager再来生... 像我们这样不上不下的... 一生孩子就马上被老板否定... 前途茫茫...

今天就写到这吧... 农历新年就要来了, 期待今年是个丰收年... 加油加油加油!

祝大家新年快乐, 心想事成, 龙年来个龙马精神!

Yang Yang 1st day in School

2011-01-03T22:06:00.002+08:00

After much consideration and have decided to send Yang Yang to pre-school. Wish that he can learn to get along well with other kids as well as to learn more things. 1 to 3 yrs old is the golden time of brain development for kids.

morning breakfast, Yang Yang likes the cornflakes

so thirsty after the outdoor activities -- blowing bubbles...

time to learn how to share toys with others

still playing with the mega blocks

coloring time, but he end up grabbing all the crayons

Story Time

trying to self feed with the fish porridge + carrot

run around while waiting for other kids to finish shower, he refused to take shower, so just changed to his afternoon uniform.

start to run and other kids start to follow, haha...

Looking at the musical instruments

I was with him the 1st day, I brought him home in the afternoon as he refuse to take nap there. Yee is with him for the following 2 days and no parents allow on the 4th day onwards... hope he wont cry so much tomorrow. I heard from my colleagues, all their kids cried at the begining from 2 wks till 1 mth, only get used to the centre... :-(

Can't bear to see him cry in school, hopefully he can overcome his fear and like the school, teachers and friends... be brave, my boy!

little updates for last week...

2010-12-14T17:18:00.005+08:00

Visited Ray & Peai Tean & baby Reuben last Sunday. Really got to think twice before bringing 2 bbs out with only me n hubby again... we need to plan n prepare so much for that 1-2 hours outing. And have to make sure the outing do not interrupting Yang Yang's daily nap time + milk time. (That day Yang Yang refused to drink his milk from bottle after he woke up from nap, I have to use spoonfeed the 200ml of milk before we departed from home, so naughty boy!)

Admire Peai Tean can be a pretty housewife and can participate in every stage bb Reuben's growth, they even decorated a small activity room especially for the Reuben, so so nice n sweet! meimei keep looking down, is she looking at those toys?
see... so hard to get a good picture with 2 babies, and that busybody Yang Yang is running here n there...
I like to stand stand...
Do u like my hairstyle?
^.^
who dare to say I am toothless...
I am tweety bird...
piano piano...
little updates for meimei before she turns 7 mths old... this week.

The best & Worst of FTWM

2010-12-14T15:40:00.003+08:00

The best part of Full-Time-Working-Mum...
1. Seeing a decent amount of $$$ accumulated in my bank acc mthly. *Actually hubby is the one happier on this.
2. Romantic lunch dates with hubby.
3. Long lunch break for me to go shopping with colleagues.
4. Try out new dishes n new restaurants with colleagues.
5. Get to wear pretty pretty or sexy sexy to office.
6. "bio" handsome guys in office. ^.^
7. Free-flow of my favorite milo drinks.

Something that boss shouldn't know...
8. Catch "snake" by browsing frenz blogs, updating own blog...
9. Facebook-ing...
10. MSN chatting...
11. Monitoring stock market + updating hubby.
12. Lunch kakis to gossip-gossip with.

The worst part...
1. Can't be with my Yang Yang + Mei Mei n watch them grow, miss them so so much. T.T
2. The tiredness after back from work, make me can't 100% enjoy the time with my 2 kids.
3. Travel to and fro between home and office through MRT - need to stand, squeeze with strangers, smelly n carrying my heavy nursing bag.
4. Need to walk 10 mins x4 (to and fro between office and HQ) daily to express BM, rain or shine.
5. Office politics - the worst among all my ex-companies, I am just not so good in stay away from it.

... I am still trying to persuade myself to drop the idea of becoming a housewife. :-(

<转载>美國媽媽如何教育孩子

2010-12-07T15:44:00.000+08:00

在面子书读了这一篇, 转载供参考一下:

儿子去美国留学，毕业后定居美国。还给我找了个洋媳妇苏珊。如今，小孙子托比已经3岁了。今年夏天，儿子为我申请了探亲签证。在美国待了三个月，洋媳妇苏珊教育孩子的方法，令我这个中国婆婆大开眼界。

不吃饭就饿着

每天早上，托比醒来后，苏珊把早餐往餐桌上一放，就自顾自地忙去了。托比会自己爬上凳子，喝牛奶，吃面包片。吃饱后，他回自己的房间，在衣柜里找衣服、鞋子，再自己穿上。毕竟托比只有3岁，还搞不清楚子的正反面，分不清鞋子的左右脚。有一次托比又把裤子穿反了，我赶紧上前想帮他换，却被苏珊制止了。她说，如果他觉得不舒服，会自己脱下来，重新穿好；如果他没觉得有什么不舒服，那就随他的便。那一整天，托比反穿着裤子跑来跑去，苏姗像没看见一样。

又一次，托比出去和邻居家的小朋友玩，没多大会就气喘吁吁地跑回家，对苏珊说：“妈妈，露西说我的裤子穿反了，真的吗？”露西是邻居家的小姑娘，今年5岁。苏姗笑着说：“是的，你要不要换回来？”托比点点头，自己脱下裤子，仔细看了看，重新穿上了。从那以后，托比再也没穿反过裤子。

我不禁想起，我的外孙女五六岁时不会用筷子，上小学时不会系鞋带。如今在上寄宿制初中的她，每个周末都要带回家一大堆脏衣服呢。

一天中午，托比闹情绪，不肯吃饭。苏珊说了他几句，愤怒地小托比一把将盘子推到了地上，盘子里的食物洒了一地。苏姗看着托比，认真地说：“看来你确实不想吃饭！记住，从现在到明天早上，你什么都不能吃。”托比点点头，坚定地回答：“Yes!”我在心里暗笑，这母子俩，还都挺倔！

下午，苏珊和我商量，晚上由我做中国菜。我心领神会，托比告别爱吃中国菜，一定是苏珊觉得托比中午没好好吃饭，想让他晚上多吃点儿。

那天晚上我施展厨艺，做了托比最爱吃的糖醋里脊、油闷大虾，还用意大利面做了中国式的凉面。托比最喜欢吃那种凉面，小小的人可以吃满满一大盘。

开始吃晚饭了，托比欢天喜地地爬上凳子。苏珊却走过来，拿走了他的盘子和刀叉，说：“我们已经约好了，今天你不能吃饭，你自己也答应了的。”托比看着面容严肃的妈妈，“哇”地一声在哭起来，边哭边说：“妈妈，我饿，我要吃饭。”“不行，说过的话要算数。”苏珊毫不心软。

我心疼了，想替托比求情，说点好话，却见儿子对我使眼色。想起我刚到美国时，儿子就跟我说，在美国，父母教育孩子时，别人千万不要插手，即使是长辈也不例外。无奈，我只好保持沉默。

那顿饭，从始至终，可怜的小托比一直坐在玩具车里，眼巴巴地看着我们三个大人狼吞虎咽。我这才明白苏珊让我做中餐的真正用意。我相信，下一次，托比想发脾气扔饭碗时，一定会想起自己饿着肚子看爸爸妈妈和奶奶享用美食的经历。饿着肚子的滋味不好受，况且还是面对自己最喜爱的食物。

临睡前，我和苏珊一起去向托比道晚安。托比小心翼翼地问：“妈妈，我很饿，现在我能吃中国面吗？”苏珊微笑着摇摇头，坚决地说：“不！”托比叹了口气，又问：“那等我睡完觉睁开眼睛时，可以吃吗？”“当然可以。”苏珊温柔地回答。托比甜甜地笑了。

大部分情况下，托比吃饭都很积极，他不想因为“罢吃”而错过食物，再受饿肚子的苦。每当看到托比埋头大口大口地吃饭，嘴上脸上粘的都是食物时，我就想起外孙女。她像托比这么大时，为了哄她吃饭，几个大人端着饭碗跟在她屁股后面跑，她还不买账，还要谈条件：吃完这碗买一个玩具，再吃一碗买一个玩具……

以其人之道，还治其人这身

有一天，我们带托比去公园玩。很快，托比就和两个女孩儿玩起了厨房游戏。塑料小锅、小铲子、小盘子、小碗摆了一地。忽然，淘气的托比拿起小锅，使劲在一个女孩儿头上敲了一下，女孩儿愣了一下，放声大哭。另一个女孩儿年纪更小一些，见些情形，也被吓得大哭起来。大概托比没想到会有这么严重的后果，站在一旁，愣住了。

苏珊走上前，开清了事情的来龙去脉后，她一声不吭，拿起小锅，使劲敲到托比的头上，托比没防备，一下子跌坐在草地上，哇哇大哭起来。苏珊问托比：“疼吗？下次还这样吗？”托比一边哭，一边拼命摇头。我相信他以后再也不会这么做了。

托比的舅舅送了他一辆浅蓝色的小自行车，托比非常喜欢，当成宝贝，不许别人碰。邻居小姑娘露西是托比的好朋友，央求托比好几次，要骑他的小车，托比都没答应。

一次，几个孩子一起玩时，露西趁托比不注意，偷偷骑上小车，扬长而去。托比发现后，气愤地跑来向苏珊告状。苏珊正和几个孩子的母亲一起聊天喝咖啡，便微笑着说：“你们的事情自己解决，妈妈可管不了。”托比无奈地走了。

过了一小会儿，露西骑着小车回来了。托比看到露西，一把将她推倒在地，抢过了小车。露西坐在地上大哭起来。苏珊抱起露西，安抚了她一会儿。很快，露西就和别的小朋友兴高采烈地玩了起来。

托比自己骑了会车，觉得有些无聊，看到那几个孩子玩得那么高兴，他想加入，又觉得有些不好意思。他蹭到苏珊身边，嘟囔道：“妈妈，我想跟露西他们一起玩。”苏珊不动声色地说：“那你自己去找他们啦！”“妈妈，你陪我一起去。”托比恳求道。“那可不行，刚才是你把露西弄哭的，现在你又想和大家玩，就得自己去解决问题。”

托比骑着小车慢慢靠近露西，快到她身边时，又掉头回来。来回好几次，不知道从什么时候开始，托比和露西又笑逐颜开，闹成了一团。

管教孩子是父母的事

苏珊的父母住在加利福尼亚州，听说我来了，两人开车来探望我们。家里来了客人，托比很兴奋，跑上跑下地乱窜。他把玩沙子用的小桶装满了水，提着小桶在屋里四处转悠。苏珊警告了她好几次，不要把水洒到地板上，托比置若罔闻。最后，托比还是把水桶弄倒了，水洒了一地。兴奋的小托比不觉得自己做错了事，还得意地光着脚丫踩水玩，把裤子全弄湿了。我连忙找出拖把准备拖地。苏珊从我手中抢过拖把交给托比，对他说：“把地拖干，把湿衣服脱下来，自己洗干净。”托比不愿意，又哭又闹。苏珊二话不说，直接把他拉到贮藏室，关了禁闭。听到托比在里面发出惊天动地的哭喊，我心疼坏了，想进去把他抱出来。托比的外婆却拦住我，说：“这是苏珊的事。”

过了一会儿，托比不哭了，他在贮藏室里大声喊：“妈妈，我错了。”苏珊站在门外，问：“那你知道该怎么做了吗？”“我知道。”苏珊打开门，托比从贮藏室走出来，脸上还挂着两行泪珠。他拿起有他两个高的拖把吃力地把地上的水拖干净。然后，他脱下裤子，拎在手上，光着屁股走进洗手间，稀里哗啦地洗起衣服来。

托比的外公外婆看着表情惊异的我，意味深长地笑了。这件事让我感触颇深。在很多中国家庭，父母管教孩子时，常常会引起“世界大战”，往往是外婆外公护，爷爷奶奶拦，夫妻吵架，鸡飞狗跳。

后来，我和托比的外公外婆聊天时，提到这件事，托比的外公说了一段话，让我印象深刻。他说，孩子是父母的孩子，首先要尊重父母对孩子的教育方式。孩子虽然小，却是天生的外交家，当他看到家庭成员之间出现分歧时，他会很聪明地钻空子。这不仅对改善他的行为毫无益处，反而会导致问题越来越严重，甚至带来更多别的问题。而且，家庭成员之间发生冲突，不和谐的家庭氛围会带给孩子更多的不安全感，对孩子的心理发展产生不利影响。所以，无论是父辈与祖辈在教育孩子的问题上发生分歧，还是夫妻两人的教育观念有差异，都不能在孩子面前发生冲突。

托比的外公外婆在家里住了一周，准备回加利福尼亚了。临走前两天，托比的外公郑重地问女儿：“托比想要一辆玩具挖掘机，我可以买给他吗？”苏珊想了想，说：“你们这次来，已经送给他一双旱冰鞋作为礼物了，到圣诞节时，再买玩具挖掘机当礼物送给他吧！”

我不知道托比的外公是怎么告诉小家伙的，后来我带托比去超市，他指着玩具挖掘机说：“外公说，圣诞节时，给我买这个当礼物。”语气里满是欣喜和期待。

虽然苏珊对托比如此严格，托比去却对妈妈爱得不得了。他在外面玩时，会采集一些好看的小花或者他认为漂亮的叶子，郑重其事地送给妈妈；别人送给他礼物，他会叫妈妈和他一起拆开；有什么好吃的，也总要留一半给妈妈。

想到很多中国孩子对父母的漠视与冷淡，我不得不佩服我的洋媳妇。在我看来，在教育孩子的问题上，美国妈妈有很多值得中国妈妈学习的地方.

妹妹 (6 mths old)

2010-11-29T17:13:00.000+08:00

我决定为妹妹重新开始勤写blog...
妹妹满6 mths old, 终于开始喂cereals了. 体重整个月没变--7.8kgs. 是可以start cereals的, 但是, 谁叫我是extreme的breastfeeding支持者... 没到6 mths old, 绝对不让添加辅食... 好在妹妹比起YangYang易养得多... 莫非这就是老二命? 看妹妹吃cereals津津有味的样子, 很有满足感...

当了两个孩子的妈, 总觉得老了很多, 虽然很喜欢和他们在一起的时光, 但是偶尔还是会觉得疲累...
我每天的routine...
6.30am人肉闹钟妹妹醒来, 喂奶... 再争取时间小睡...
7am warm YangYang's 奶, 开始Express BM.
730am 喂YangYang, 幸运的话, 分两次喂完. 为什么YangYang就是没有妹妹那般好喂?
8am 准备上班
830am MRT罚站中...
930am 赚钱中...
1130am 竞走10mins回HQ的nursing room去EBM
12-2pm 吃饭/聊天/逛街, 偶尔心情好搭MRT去找老公吃饭拍拖...
2pm 赚钱中...
530pm 竞走10mins回HQ的nursing room去EBM
6pm 竞走10mins回office等放工
630pm 如果老公有空会来载, 还可以和老公聊聊天拍拖... 不然就得扛5kgs的nursing bag挤MRT回家...
730pm 到家, 把BM处理好, 洗奶瓶...然后在5-10分钟内嗑完我的晚餐, 然后帮妹妹冲凉, 喂奶. 然后把妹妹交给mother抱.
9pm warm YangYang's milk, 帮YangYang冲凉, 喂奶...
930-10pm 关灯哄YangYang睡... 偏偏这小子会把一天的话再说一遍, 歌都唱几遍才愿意睡... (导致妹妹不能同时进房睡)
11pm 在接妹妹进房喂奶睡觉...
还没完ler... 1am再起来EBM一次, 偶尔太累睡过头, 好在Mother会来叫...

我常觉得很亏欠妹妹, 虽然一个是我的心肝, 一个是我的宝贝. 但是, 照顾起来还是有差别. YangYang从出生到现在, 睡baby cot的次数和妹妹从出生到现在, 和我们一起睡的次数一样, 十只手指数得完. 早上妹妹先睡醒, 我也没有多余的手去抱她, 都是先entertain完YangYang喝完奶, 幸好认命的妹妹总是很乖的在自己的baby cot玩耍(如果是YangYang早就哭爹喊娘了). 等我忙完后去抱她时, 她总是给我最甜的笑容.

哭的样子也很搞笑...

6个半月就开始学爬... 比哥哥还快...

yoga

我的心肝脾肺肾都在睡猪猪觉...

12 個寵壞孩子的方法 (转)

2010-11-12T15:04:00.001+08:00

1. 有求必應：打從孩子出生開始，你就給他所有他要的東西，如此一來就算他以後長大成人，他還是會倔強的認為所有的一切都是世界欠他的。

2. 他出口成 "髒"，你一笑置之：當孩子講出不得體的話甚至口出穢言，你卻只是笑了笑，這將會使他認為自己很可愛他說的話很討喜，你的反應不外乎是鼓勵他下次再挑些更討喜的話來講。

3. 從不訓練他精神獨立：從小一切幫他打點好一切事情由你來負責，等到他20 歲時再突然告訴他"自己決定吧 !"我們不難想像孩子們對這種突如其來且遲來的恩准，反應會是:"#~%&^...."。

4. 從不告訴他你錯了：如此將造成他日後嚴重的罪惡感，若我們一直避免把錯字冠諸孩子的不良行為，一直不告訴他孰是孰非，待某日他牴觸了法律，犯下了父母再也無法替他掩飾的罪行，他還以為整個社會都與他作對，是他自己受到迫害。

5. 替他收拾所有弄亂的東西：像個名符其實的老媽子一樣地跟在他後面，撿起他丟再地上的書鞋子髒衣服，幫他整理房間做東做西打理一切，養成他日後推卸責任，將別人的好意當成是理所當然的惡習。

6. 毫不限制他的讀物：小心啊!雖然碗筷洗了餐具消毒了，孩子嘴巴吃得乾淨，腦子吃的卻是垃圾。

7. 常常當著孩子的面吵架：日後父母離婚了家庭破碎了，你也不用為孩子麻木不仁無關痛癢的反應感到震驚與不解。

8. 當他的搖錢樹：若金錢對他們而言太容易到手，想買東西時只要他們搖一搖吵一吵錢就掉下來了，不讓孩子明白金錢是要靠自己的努力去賺取的，如此要他們如何能瞭解"錢歹賺"，如何使他們能有正確的金錢概念。

9. 滿足他所有的口腹之慾：當你自始至終永遠滿足他的需求時，你會發現一次的拒絕就足以對他造成傷害極大的挫折感。

10.永遠站在他這邊：站在孩子這邊固然是好的，但要永遠嗎？當孩子真的犯錯時呢？你能想像這種心態都是別人不好他們都對我的孩子有偏見，會造成他日後一生多少問題嗎？永遠站在孩子這邊，永遠教他與鄰居師長警察對立，不過是提早讓他走上不歸路罷了。

11.我就是拿他沒辦法：當孩子們闖了大禍犯了大錯，若你只是一次又一次拿這句話來搪塞，替自己的不是找藉口找台階下，孩子們以後如何能尊重你呢？他難道不會想："既然沒辦法那就乾脆讓你一輩子都沒辦法好了"。

12.準備過悲慘的一生吧：想寵壞你的孩子嗎？想培育出不負責任的下一代嗎？很簡單，照著這12 條法則去做，保證你一生會是悲慘的 !

为了孩子, 关掉电视吧!

2010-11-08T15:59:00.000+08:00

凑了个"好"字...

2010-11-03T15:45:00.009+08:00

好久没update blog了, 就是一个字 -- 懒!
总觉得没能为咱家的妹妹写过一篇blog, 有点惭愧... 可惜惭愧不足以打败懒惰虫呀!
回来上班快2个月, 今天终于能挪出一点点时间来写...
其实在怀妹妹的后期, 就和老公商量并决定要当个SAHM -- Stay at home mom. 最后因为种种因素... Give up 了(所以才能在这里get paid to blog... 万幸呀...)
妹妹--张家榕--小虎姑婆--小胖妹--榕榕, 于2010年5月18日, 在咱家客厅隆重登场... 出动两辆救护车... 一旁还有kepo的YangYang在跑来跑去...

-------------------------我是分割线-----------------------------

2010年5月17日8pm, 我和老公去最后一次checkup... 38wk++

Dr Irene : 已经开了3cm
我 : 这么快生了?
Dr Irene : 不会这么快生. 我有个patient, 开了3cm还能拖多两个礼拜...
我 : 哦~原来还没要生... 吓得我!
Dr Irene : 总之有生产的征兆就来医院吧...
Dr Irene可能忘记我的第一胎是epidural + induction, so我并没有经历过normal的生产...

到了18日3am, 好像有点contractions, 但不很痛... 继续睡...
到了6am, 好像contractions还没停... 开始有点痛, but还不到我想像中应该痛的程度, 以为是false alarm (没想到我的耐痛能力那么强), 问了问老公... 老公让我别去office, 在家monitor... 可是到了7am, 喂完YangYang喝奶, 我觉得比较痛了... 开始time, contractions几乎是每6-7mins一次... 直觉要生了, call老公叫他回来, 他竟然叫我忍多2hrs等他做完rounding回来载我. 做事last min的我赶快pack我的hospital bag, 还有喝鸡精. 本来还想快快冲个凉再去, 可是我已经感觉到妹妹在pushing了, 根本就来不及.

再call老公,说我不能等他了... 要先去搭cab(幸好没搭成, 不然就上新闻了). 谁知道妹妹已经迫不及待的想看这个世界, 我只能坐在客厅的沙发"等生"了. 我当时的心情是"OMG, 我真的要在家里生baby吗?"

老公又call来, 说叫了救护车, 他也on the way了... 我只能用意志力尽量阻止妹妹, 拖延时间... 直到救护人员赶来, 妹妹很快就pops出来了(8:50am), 老公也赶上帮妹妹剪了脐带. 最后再tumpang救护车到医院. Dr Irene说, 下一胎最好一痛就来医院. 还不忘提醒我要把这难忘的故事写下来... 哈哈
其实, YangYang的生产过程也是很精彩的, 差点要被送上手术台. 幸好老公last min救了我... =P

-------------------------我是分割线-----------------------------

现在妹妹快6个月了(7.5kgs)... YangYang也快2岁了(11kgs)... 他们是我的宝贝, 让我想起一首歌... 老虎... 老鼠... 傻傻分不清楚... haha

為什麼要等，兩百七十九天？

2010-10-21T17:37:00.001+08:00

有個男人，已經超厭煩每天都要去公司上班，而且，看著老婆卻可以成天待在家裡。
於是，他向上帝禱告說：「親愛的主，我每天上班投入八個鐘頭的時間，但我的老婆只待在家裡，閒閒没事做。我希望讓她知道我過的是什麼樣的日子，所以請讓我們的身體交換吧！」上帝以祂無比的智慧，成就了這個男人的願望。
隔天，這男人一起床就成了個女人。所以，他一起床，就開始為他的伴侶做早點，再去叫醒那些賴床的孩子們。送孩子上學後回家的路上，他要去洗衣店收送衣服，到銀行存錢，還到菜市場買菜。
然後回家把菜放一邊，要仔細記帳，記完帳之後，他清了貓的砂盒，後來還替狗洗澡…… 然後時間已經下午一點鐘了。他趕快把棉被折好，洗衣服，擦地板……餵完貓狗……
他衝到學校去接小孩，然後還得和那些越來越沒大沒小的孩子們一路上大小聲，回家之後，他幫孩子準備點心和牛奶，讓孩子乖乖地寫功課，然後他把燙馬擺好，一邊燙衣服一邊看肥皂劇重播。下午四點半，他開始削馬鈴薯，洗菜作沙拉烤肉餅，為晚餐做準備。
晚餐後，那個死不要臉的老婆，剛下班一吃完飯，然坐在客廳看起足球賽來！他則忙著整理廚房洗碗，把收好的衣服摺好，哄小孩睡覺。
晚上九點，他已經累壞了，但是又擔心白天的雜務還有很多沒做完……
不管了，他終於衝上床想休息了，但是這時他那個閒得發慌的老婆，竟然還興致勃勃地提議要「嘿咻嘿咻」。他心不甘情不願，但還是努力裝得很愉快。
他設法不要抱怨，隔天一起床，他立刻靠著床邊跪下來，流著淚跟上帝說：
「主啊！我不知道我之前在想什麼，現在我知道我實在錯得離譜，竟錯到去妒嫉我老婆整天在家享受。求求您，讓我們換回來吧！」
主以祂無比的智慧，回答他：「孩子，我很高興知道你已經學到了智慧，而且，我也很願意把你們兩人換回來，
但是……但是你還要等二百七十九天，
因為——

…………
「昨天晚上，你懷孕了！」

「哈哈哈哈哈。」

Yang Yang's 1st Birthday Celebration

2009-12-16T09:44:00.005+08:00

Yes, today is my 1st birthday, I am no more a baby boy, I am little boy now! Mama wanted to buy a 3D mickey mouse fondant cake for me, but papa not allow. In the end I only got this 2D cake, oh... bad papa...
we ordered golden pillow and some other food... grandpa brought kolomee from kch, grandma make the curry puffs and jelly... yummy...

I think I am a bit cool that day, probably due to I am a little boy now, I dun do stupid laugh like baby... or maybe due to I dun get a 3D cake that day...

Took with papa and mama... and my future toy in mama's tummy...

With er yi and er yi zhang, they gave me angbao to buy sweet... haha... I wish they can faster get me a cousin, so I can have more toy to play with...

with my xiao yi, too bad xiao yi zhang can't make it to my birthday celebration, but I will save some cake for him...

Grandpa is very happy... ya, he really is. I am happy too... not until when I think of the 2D cake...

with my beloved mama, oh... do I look a bit shy? In future I oso want to marry my mama... then I got to have more 3D cake... yeah~

my er yi really adores me... she always come to visit me...

I am going to be xiao yi's little 花童 for her wedding this Christmas... yeah~

So, do I look handsome today? I am wearing the present from da bo and da bo mu...

A bit shocked, the gold necklace grandpa and grandma gave me worth over 1k... compare with papa, they are very generous hor... Dancing puppy from xiao yi... a bit scary when he chased me around... but I like it... hehe...
bicycle from papa and mama... voom voom...
I am taking my puppy for a ride now... next time the gf...

Happy 1st Birthday!

2 funny happenings...

2009-12-15T10:24:00.005+08:00

Happening 1:
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Yee keep thinking of getting a new laptop(the old laptop oredi 5 yrs old) recently. When he got his Dec salary + AWS(bonus) yesterday, he called me n said, "yo, tonite we go suntec to buy a new laptop ok?". We went n got a good bargain... plus a travel luggage bag worth $300 as free gift... yeah~

Anyhow, I offered to help him carry the bag... but he said no, not for a preggie to carry such heavy thing, how sweet. Then, I suggested that he can put the laptop in the bag n pull, he said can't fit in. "Fine, how abt u carry the laptop while I pull the bag?" Again, he said no... the bag is new! OMG, sooner or later we're gonna use it too... and the wheels will get dirty wat? IT IS JUST A LUGGAGE!

NVM, I ignored him... let him carried all the way by himself. ALAS, I noticed my 2 colics from a distance, n they saw me too. Bo bien, I had to greet them n introduced to hubby. Oh, they definitely tot tat I am torturing my hubby to make him carry all the things for me. This morning they came to my desk n keep on teasing me... walao er...

I am quite sad ler until I found out that today my Dec salary + AWS is OUT too! Wow, happy... so happy... it's really a merry merry Christmas tis yr! hehe...

Happening 2:
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This morning was the 2nd time i got offered a seat due to my prenancy. Although I am only 4 mths preg, my tummy is showing earlier this time, one mth earlier than last pregnancy. I guess, mainly becoz my tummy havn't fully recovered since then... :-(

anyway, when I got in the train, both of the secondary school gals noticed me. Then I over-heard some of their conversations.

gal A: oh, is she preg?
gal B: I'm not sure, do we need to offer her the seat?
gal A: u go ask her lar, very embarassing ler, if we guess wrongly...
gal B: then how?
... then, I can't hear anything as they lower their volume. But within minutes, they made the decision. They both got up and walked aside... offering me the seat without asking me if I am preg and need the seat or not. Haha, they r afraid of offending me, how nice... I sit down n not forgetting to say thank you to them. Just want to let them confirm that I am really a preggie, not just fat... haha...

Not sure if I mentioned here before, there was one incident that happened during the time when I just back to work after my maternity leave, I *WAS* still FAT(yeah~ abt 5kgs extra). Then on the train, one handsome guy offered me his seat when he saw me. So embarassing, n I told him "no, thanks, and I am not pregnant." Oh~ that's really a bad experience, so paiseh ne~

note: I use the word *WAS* still fat, ya, now I am preg again, so not consider fat anymore... yippee...

salute to my boss's wife

2009-12-14T10:45:00.000+08:00

This morning, I rushed all the way to office again. MRT was slightly delayed, the 4th times of the mth, hate it, but yet that wont make me step out of my house 10 mins earlier, haha.

Then, on the way, I met my boss, the new manager who just joined us 6 mths ago. He asked when he noticed that I dint carry my "Freeze-to-go" bag.

J: "Oh, u forgot to bring ur another bag today?"

P: "Oh... I decided to stop the afternoon session of expressing BM as I am planning to switch my boy to formula soon... so, now I only left morning and night sessions... hehe..."

J: "How old is ur boy now?"

P: "Turning 10 mths soon... "

When I was expecting that he would be surprising that I have being breastfed my boy for such a *long* period, he said...

J: "My wife breastfeed our boy for.... one two three... " he was counting with fingers. When he count 1 and 2, I was thinking did he mean years? Then when he continued to count until 3 and 4... I thought, hmm... months? Yup, should be months when he counted to 5.

J: "about 5 yrs... ", proudly showing me his 5 fingers...

P: "Wow, I really need to salute to ur wife... amazing... really amazing...", really shocking, no wonder he is always ok for my afternoon EBM session.

P: "But how can she maintained her supply that long? I have been struggling so hard to keep my supply ler... "

J: "hmm... duno, she just keep it going n enjoying... :-) "

P: "Is she working?"

J: "Nope, she is a housewife... " hmm... no wonder she can make it. I know, this can be the only excuse that I give up so soon... Anyway, she is really amazing... housewife is not an easy job too... got to do housework ler... what u think?

(This is the post I saved in my draft for 2 mths, so I am publishing it now)

你受制于谁？

2009-11-03T18:07:00.002+08:00

12星座你会受制于谁？
所谓一物降一物，这世界上总有些人，看似只是轻轻一拂，就点中了你的爱情“死穴”。

●白羊座：一生受制于天蝎座。只有天蝎座的人才能使白羊座的人爱得死心塌地。
●金牛座：一生受制于天秤座。天秤座在金牛座的心目中是最吸引自己的。
●双子座：一生受制于巨蟹座。巨蟹座的人使得双子座神魂颠倒。
●巨蟹座：一生受制于处女座。处女座几乎是巨蟹座一生最重要的人。
●狮子座：一生受制于摩羯座。狮子座若果没有了摩羯座便如没有了生命色彩。
●处女座：一生受制于金牛座。被金牛座的独特魅力吸引过来。
●天秤座：一生受制于巨蟹座。能被巨蟹座影响一生幸福的人。
●天蝎座：一生受制于狮子座。狮子座的雄风能把天蝎座完全钳制住。
●射手座：一生受制于白羊座。对白羊座的人永远不离不弃。
●摩羯座：一生受制于水瓶座。水瓶座的人能使自己爱得疯狂。
●水瓶座：一生受制于巨蟹座。巨蟹座能把水瓶座的人完全玩弄于鼓掌之中。
●双鱼座：一生受制于射手座。射手座能使双鱼座的人对自己死心塌地,不动声色地爱着自己。

为什么?
为什么双子座要受制于巨蟹座?

为什么?
为什么巨蟹座不受制于双子座?

为什么?
为什么我是双子座?

为什么?
为什么老公是巨蟹座?

Our Family

2009-11-03T17:30:00.007+08:00

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Sembawang Park

2009-04-29T10:41:00.006+08:00

As promised, Yee brought us to Sembawang Park the day after he finished his exam. FYI, Sembawang Park is a 15 hectare park situated in Sembawang(quite near to our house) , in the north of Singapore facing the Straits of Johor overlooking Malaysia. We got up super early in the morning (normally for weekends we sleep till noon), just to bring Yang Yang for a sunbath, haha. Then, we tapao McDonald's breakfast sets, took a 5-10 mins taxi, finally arrived. Lots of ppl camping and BBQ there... and some fishing n swimming too...
We only brought Yang Yang's lamborghini(baby stroller) and a camping tent(for breastfeeding purpose)... Yang Yang only woke up for a while and looked around then fell asleep again, probably too comfortable there... the weather just nice... good for taking a nap...
Pretended to do exercise... haha

Yang Yang still sleeping... zzzZZZ

Put him back to his tent... on his air-con (small fan) haha...

"Yang Yang, can wake up lor... we are going home now... " "no, I dun care... here is more comfortable... zzzZZZ"

Next time, we will prepare for a BBQ there... so looking forward...

Yang Yang (3 mths++)

2009-04-10T23:18:00.001+08:00

妈咪, 我不是小姑娘啦... 我是和爸爸一样的痞子哦... 对美眉吹口哨不是把两根香肠手指放嘴巴吹吗? 呃, 不是吗?
那天洗完澡从浴室出来, 看到他老爸抱着他一起读书... 他也乖乖地坐着, 很搞笑, 立刻拍下来...
对付爸爸这个坏蛋就是要这样... ACHAR~

I'm back

2009-03-16T16:50:00.003+08:00

My maternity leave ended. I'm back... to office again, miss my Yang Yang so much... :-(
I got my own life back, at least I wont be so attached to Yang Yang (I even have a thought of quiting my job that time)... haha

Office still the same, except my ex-boss resigned and got 2 more new colleagues... ohya, one of my lunch kaki went on maternity leave the week before I back. Bz but not so bz... at least I still have time to update my blog and chat with my frenz... yeah, this really feels good...

Yang Yang is quite a good boy, easy to take care of. The week b4 I back to office, he himself already can sleep throughout the nite without needing extra feeds. And, he is fine with any kind of his "food container", nay nay or bottle... haha. Yup, I'm still breastfeeding my Yang Yang. If possible, I planned for at least 6 mths of total breastfeeding... that's my 1st milestone. Luckily my company has a nursing room for those working mums to pump their milk and store in the fridge there... all I need is just a cooler bag to transfer the milk home at the end of the day.

He still duno how to flip himself, but we let him practises to raise his head on his chest 1st...

Look at his naughty face, dun he looks just like his daddy? Yang Yang's angel kiss still there... but already not so obvious... duno when will it fully fade away...

The Beginning of Little Vader's Era (By Lord Vader)

2008-12-16T06:33:00.008+08:00

Naughty "Kah Yang" prefered to enjoy his weekend inside, so I still have to go office on Monday :-( . My boss thought that I was able to help her to settle some assignments before I go on maternity leave, haha. Who knows in the evening, Dr.Han advised us to admit to hospital at midnight and she would like to induce the BB due to unforesee event.

We took photos together while "Kah Yang" still inside my womb. I even enjoyed my last scoop of ice-cream since I will be forbidden for a mth after giving birth.
Almost 12 midnight, taken the very last photo with Howe Tian, then Yee and I departed to Raffles Hospital...

At 6:33 AM 16-12-2008, "Kah Yang" was born, with "Angel's Kiss" on his forehead... hehe...

Who do you think he resembles?

Took with maternal grandma...

Took with paternal grandma...

With Aunty Ling(er yi) and Uncle Howe Tian(~~er jiu~~ er yi zhang)...

With Aunty Chin (xiao yi)...

With Chiau Yew koko and Ming Hui jia jia (since not yet married)... hehe

快点出来吧!

2008-12-13T17:04:00.002+08:00

快受不了了啦~ 和我孕期相同的同事Grace, 在2天前已经生下她的BB, 而我的BB还不想出来... 真是磨人的小家伙呢! Dr. Han说如果我这个星期还没生, 就得回去工作, OMG, 我已经让妈妈她们过来陪我了... 这么能丢下她们在家呢? (当然我也不想这个时候回去工作的啦~)

现在BB已经有3kg了, 长得很快, 连妊娠纹也长出来了, 每天都很累, 心情也很坏... 我是越来越没耐性了... 而且越大就越难生嘛... 开始有怕怕的感觉了...

或许BB觉得待在肚子里真的比较舒服吧...

在家发霉篇

2008-11-19T11:16:00.005+08:00

从上个礼拜开始, Dr. Han决定让我放一个月的Hopitalisation Leave, 在家养胎... 也不知道是好事还是坏事... 虽然很担心BB, 但是心里还是为赚到一个月的免费假期而暗喜... 呵呵

之前BB都长得好好... 到了week28, Dr.Han开始觉得BB有点小, 不过因为考虑到老公和我都是"小种"的, 所以BB也不可能是"大种"的... 到了week32, 尽管我已经增加了14kg, Dr.Han认为BB还是长得太慢了... 只有1.2kg. 让我开始喝孕妇奶粉还立刻安排我过几天让Dr. Tony做BB Growth Scan. Dr.Tony scan后发现BB是1.55kg, 认为BB的Heartbeat, Blood supply都正常, 还很active, 就只是脚短了点, 也同样说了老公和我都是"小种"的理论, 让我们不用担心. 又过了几天, Week33, 我们又去见Dr.Han, BB已经有1.9kg了, 不过Dr.Han还是有点担心, 说要closely monitor BB... 就让我立刻放假在家睡多一点, 吃多一点, 不要因为工作而太stressed...

一直以来, 老公和我都以为我的孕期是相当smooth的... 没有Morning Sickness, 没有生病, 好吃好睡, 没有水肿, 没有妊娠纹, 皮肤也没什么豆豆或斑点... 等等之类. 那时我还骄傲地跟老公说以后我们的BB一定是很孝顺的啦...

经过这几个星期的补救... 刚好老公的爸妈过来帮我们处理搬新家的事, 还有煲汤给我喝... 前几天week34又去scan, BB已经2.1kg... Dr.Han也比较放心了, 只跟我说可以吃点榴连, 对BB的size有帮助.

现在一个人在家还真无聊... 除了和BB说话, 就只能自言自语了... 还真怀念上班的日子呢!

北海道蜜月 -- Day 5

2008-11-18T18:48:00.000+08:00

第5天, 我们来到了熊牧场... 没想到还养了几只狸猫...
牧场里有水果贩卖机供游客买来喂熊大哥... 这里的熊大哥都很聪明, 看到游客就会猛招手...
熊牧场旁边就是昭和新山, 是在昭和年代由地底涌出的熔岩所形成的新山, 还冒著烟.

有缆车可以上去看火山口... 几乎全部人都去搭, 除了几个有惧高症的阿麻和我们这对穷夫妻(这几天下来, 几乎大家对我们的印象就是这样吧)... 哈哈! 午餐是在海边的一间海鲜市场+餐厅...

屋顶有灰熊+三文鱼... 还有只大螃蟹...

很多新鲜海产...

终于轮到我们来北海道的终极目标登场了-- 帝王蟹! 当导游说有谁要吃帝王蟹的时候, 兴奋的阿懿和我立刻举手... 却发现整车人就我们两个举手... 好不尴尬...

我们点了一只小的俩人share -- S$180. 中的够4个人share -- S$210，大的要$250. 直到这天才知道原来每次美食节目介绍的红色帝王蟹都是次货. 帝王蟹是在深海捕捉的, 离开深海, 因为压力不同... 只能活几个星期... 过后就会被煮熟然后急冻, 又可以保存几个月... 所以两者的价钱差一倍...

导游建议我们蟹脚当sashimi生吃, 蟹身煮汤会很甜...

不过孕妇不能吃生的... 所以我们把全部都倒进味曾汤里煮... 还真的是甜,超级oishii... 以后还要回来吃!

吃饱后, 在海边拍拍照...

接着,参观白老爱奴村,体验北海道传统民族的生活...

和村长拍照... 问他是真的爱奴人吗, 他竟然开玩笑说他是领薪水的... 5点放工就会回家了... 哈哈...

屋顶挂著的烟熏三文鱼都是真的哦!

登别地狱谷, 今晚我们将入住著名的“地狱谷”地区. “地狱谷”是因大量的温泉水、热气与硫磺所形成的景色有如传说中的地狱. 这里的温泉也很著名.

走了很长的路才看到硫磺喷泉...

因为是最后一晚, 导游提议大家一起穿浴服吃晚餐还要拍团照...

份量真的很多...

吃饱后, 大家就一起步行去看表演... 路上经过"阎王殿"...

地狱谷的魔鬼是善良的魔鬼, 会保护人类的哦... 表演开始了...

还有烟火呢...

最后来张合照...

就这样... 北海道之旅就此告一段落了!

北海道蜜月 -- Day 4

2008-10-19T18:43:00.006+08:00

YEAH~ 早餐终于抢到靠窗的位置...

趁还有点时间, 赶紧来湖边拍照...

被卡通化的"ma ri mo"... 哈哈

今天我们又回到札幌市, 从东部又回到了南部... 几乎3小时的车程. 终于可以shopping了, 就在著名的狸小路商店街..
好大的果子狸... 呵呵, 我现在的肚脐眼就是和它一模一样...

小小的搞笑一下... :-p

传说中的药妆店... 狂扫KOSE的保养品... 几乎是半价!

老公对Pachinko很有兴趣... 所以他陪我shop完, 我就陪他玩Pachinko... 够义气吧!
虽然语言不通, 店员还是很友善的教我们换弹珠, 怎么玩, 按哪里, 还帮我们拍照... (本来不允许拍照的)...

我认为Pachinko根本就是另一种poker, 不用动脑... 就是一直放弹珠... 然后随便转, 随便按... 或许是beginner luck吧, 10分钟内, 我们竟然从1桶弹珠变2桶(也不过是赢了S$10罢了)

坐我们隔壁的一个Obasan, 一看我们要走, 立刻问我们是不是不玩了, 想要用我们那架来玩... (一定是看到我们一直赢吧!)

离开狸小路, 我们来到拉面街... 本以为可以吃拉面的... 谁知到导游说今晚要吃Shabu Shabu (也是自助餐), 所以不能吃拉面... T_T
100元商店...

晚餐...

北海道蜜月 -- Day 3

2008-10-19T18:04:00.010+08:00

到了第三天, 还是一样的6-7-8规则 (6点Morning call, 7点Breakfast, 8点启程). 今天的重点是北海道东部的3大湖 -- 屈斜路湖, 摩周湖, 阿寒湖.
屈斜路湖在阿寒国立公园里, 导游说一路上可能会看到阿熊或阿鹿的野生动物, 可惜连只猴子都没个影... (冬天可能可以看到狐狸)
湖很美, 但是老公和我懒得爬太远... 情愿坐着欣赏风景, 而且空气真的很新鲜, 又凉爽...
下了山, 来到湖边, 很多游客在沙滩上挖了个洞泡脚. 导游说湖水是冷的, 但是旁边挖洞流出来的是热的.

传说中, 有人在湖里看过有水怪... 不过我拍下"它"的原因是那昂贵的赔偿金 -- 100万日币!!!
一路上, 只要有休息站, 几乎都有买鲜奶, 冰淇淋, 烤玉米(超甜的). 在北海道的这几天, 我几乎把鲜奶当水喝呢(BB生出来, 皮肤会很雪白吧?). 还有, 这间店只要付300日币就可以鲜奶任你喝喔!路上经过硫磺山, 导游开玩笑说在这放屁也没人知道... 哈哈
午餐还不错啦... 还附上蜜瓜一片... 真甜(因为不是自掏腰包买的所以更是甜, 呵呵)!
午餐后, 来到的第2个湖, 摩周湖 -- 好像是世界排名(忘了第几)最清澈的湖. 又称"魔女的眼睛".

有点雾... 湖也看得不是很清楚...
"ma ri mo" -- 只生长在摩周湖湖底的圆形海藻... 刚开始还误以为是"动物", 因为语言不通的店员都介绍说可以放在掌心揉揉... 而且"ma ri mo"的周边商品都被卡通化，还分公的母的...
后来知道是海藻后, 本想要买1颗来养, 谁知导游说, 都是假的, 因为"ma ri mo"是受保护的, 要100年才能长到10cm大, 又是在湖的深处... 这么可能卖这么便宜?
钏路市湿原展望台... 来看红顶鹤, 可惜夏天都飞走了... 红顶鹤的四季生态图...
又搞怪了!

晚上住在第3个湖旁的Hotel, 又是和式的房间... 很高兴. 我最喜欢和式的被了, 很厚却又很轻很软...
Nice view, 窗外就是阿寒湖...
晚餐是Buffet, 在Hotel的Restaurant... 可惜抢不到靠窗的位置...
吃饱后, 到处逛逛... Hotel外都是买纪念品的商店...
木雕店, 这是北海道的土地公... 看到很多可爱的猫头鹰木雕, 很想买But都很贵... 在这里, 猫头鹰是家里的守护神哦!

专卖"ma ri mo"的店... 哈哈... 别上当ok?

回房后, 老公想看看日本的电台有没有免费的"有色"节目, 按了整晚遥控器, 发现都是要付费...
又另一款浴服... 呵呵(拍上瘾了)

北海道蜜月 -- Day 2

2008-09-08T21:13:00.013+08:00

第2天一大早吃了早餐... 我们就出发去赏花了... 夏天7月正好是淡紫色熏衣草盛开的季节...
一整天都在熏衣草堆里... 被香味熏的好想睡觉... zzzZZZ
7彩的花圃...
最大的"彩虹之丘"...
拍得最满意的一张... hehe... 老公和我都好想再回去呢!

超大的稻草娃娃... 逛了3个花园, 赶紧来到了男山清酒厂...
所酿的清酒都用山泉水... 大家抢着喝... 还有很多日本人拿瓶子和桶来装呢!当轮到我的时候, 发现有些小虫徘徊在水上... 吓得我只能做做样子... 不敢喝...
免费试喝清酒... 没有孕妇的份... sob sob...

酒厂外也是设计得很复古...
天色已快暗下来... 要去今晚下榻的温泉旅馆了. 路上经过两个瀑布 -- 夫妻瀑布. 老婆叫银河瀑布, 水流比较和缓. 导游说这叫"婀娜多姿"... 哈哈!
老公叫流星瀑布... 水流很急... 水像喷出来似的...
今晚睡榻榻米的房间... 很美... 吃晚饭时, 有人会帮我们把床设好...
还有绿茶和小点心... 真是太贴心了...

hehe... 难得有浴服好show off...
晚餐在旅馆吃自助餐... 还有师傅现煎的牛排... 和老公说果然昨天取消kobe beef是明智的决定... :-p
老公拿了很多食物... 但是都随便往盘里堆, 一点美感都没有... 害我不能拍得太清楚! 吃饱后, 老公就去泡温泉了... 又是没有孕妇的份... 我恨啊~以后有机会再来, 我一定要泡个够!
早上醒来, 天气很好, 窗外风景很美... 有山有云... 果然是名不虚传的"层云峡"...

北海道蜜月 -- Day 1

2008-09-02T15:39:00.002+08:00

老公还真守信用. 我原以为怀孕了, 北海道度蜜月也没了... 没想到老公还蛮积极的, 找遍了很多旅行社, 问遍了很多配套. 不过, 整个过程也蛮一波三折的. 首先, 因为老公的假期只有7天, 日期又不能改, 很多配套不是要早一天出发, 就是要迟一天回来. 好不容易找到合适的配套, 谁知道竟然遇到人数不够, 配套临时被取消的倒霉事 (连我都以为可能是上天注定, 想要放弃了). 还好老公坚持再去找一遍, 才终于找到, 还要自己去办VISA. 熬到出发当天, 才买了旅行保险(都是为了BB).

7月21日, 半夜的飞机, 飞往成田机场, 再搭巴士转国内机场, 再飞北海道. 抵达北海道的千岁机场已是隔天中午了. 导游Jasmine为我们安排了午餐...

昂贵的北海道蜜瓜... 一小片要价S$3... 不过还真是清甜多汁...
吃饱了, 立刻出发到札幌市的小樽运河... 没料到北海道的夏天竟然这么凉爽 (东京可就热爆了), 就和Genting一样... 真舒服, 真适合孕妇来游玩... 嘻嘻!

好像回到了古代, 到处是人力车...
了望塔...
彩虹冰淇淋... 超美味... 一个S$6.50...

北海道的吉祥物之一 , 熊!

可爱的HelloKitty... 忍不住想逗一逗...

小樽运河旁的街道和建筑物都很古典很浪漫... 很多精品咖啡馆... 可惜时间有限 (跟团的坏处)... 不能悠闲的坐下来喝下午茶...

小樽俗名”音乐箱会馆”, 它拥有一个音乐盒，传出来的声音就象来自天堂一般的音乐旋律...

琳琅满目的音乐盒... 还可以制造自己的音乐盒... 价钱嘛, 还是别问了... 才第一天到北海道, 得省着点花! (北海道不像东京, 不收卡, 不兑新币)

每个都想买来收藏!

老公真的很爱搞怪... 都快当爸的人了... -_-!!!

时间飞逝... 在导游的催促下, 大家依依不舍的和小樽道别... 赶回札幌市吃晚餐 -- 铁板自助餐. 老公煮, 我来吃... 呵呵!

两个人share一份, 鸡肉, 猪肉, 牛肉任拿... 饱到不行...

其实还发生了一件糗事... 导游在巴士上向我们推荐了神户牛肉 (Kobe Beef), 那时老公和我认为既然都来到了日本, 应该要试一试吧, 就跟导游说我们也要一份 (当时导游还没告诉我们价钱, 也没说晚餐是自助餐). 后来一听200g神户牛肉要价S$100, 开始后悔了... 讨论后, 我认为自己本来就对牛肉没有喜好, 神户牛肉和普通牛肉还不都一个样... 老公也觉得自助餐都有牛肉了, 多200g神户牛肉好像很浪费. 不过要怎么跟导游说呢? 最后我让老公去和导游小声说. 谁知道老实的老公一动也不动的在座位上对着导游大声说, "导游, 我们还是不要点神户牛肉了... 已经吃不完了, 不好意思!"... 谁知道, 假厉害的老公再加了一句, "200g要S$100真的有点贵啊... ". 天啊~ 糗死了! 最最最糗的是, 我们旁边正好坐了一对很有钱的夫妻, 还要请我们吃他们点的神户牛肉... 谁会吃得下? XD

老公, 你真是让我哭笑不得啊~

is Mickey, not Minnie!

2008-08-13T15:11:00.007+08:00

8月13日, 是孕20周的 Fetal Anomaly Scan (FAS), 又要回去Raffles Hospital总部, 又是换Dr. Tony为我们检查(我比较喜欢Dr. Han). 这次是检查BB的内脏, 一切正常, BB长更大了, 快400克, 还比20周的标准大一点点呢! 呵呵, 我在北海道可是7天就增加了3kg呢! 最后, Dr. Tony说, "Hmm... 99.9%是男生！", 还让我们看BB的小鸡鸡...果然是超可爱的 :-p

由女变男... 知道是男的那一刻, 老实说我是开心的, 可是过后总觉得怪怪的, 好像很对不起BB一样, 又好像是有点遗憾的感觉, 又有点担心说不定又会变回来. 如果我能一次生个龙凤胎, 那该多好... -_-

老公倒是轻松, 当然啦, 肉又不是长在他身上! 不过, 老公真的很高兴(之前还假惺惺说什么女儿也好), 立刻就打了电话给妈妈报告... 太偏心了吧! 不是说老爸都疼女儿吗? 我老爸就是个好例子啊!

前天, 小妹忽然说要帮我和我的肚肚拍张纪念照... 想说要记录肚子慢慢地大起来. 之前Dr. Han说我有点underweight, 北海道回来后, 体重就随之我的胃口的增大而增加了, 才怀孕5个月, 我也重了5kg, BB才不过0.4kg而已, 欲哭无泪啊~

有小鸡鸡!?!

2008-07-17T15:57:00.014+08:00

"Hmm... 好像是个男孩... "

BB 17Weeks, 我们又见到 Dr. Han了. 再过几天, 我们就要出发去北海道度我们的3人蜜月了, 所以让 Dr. Han检查一下. BB一切都OK... 健健康康. 忽然间, Dr. Han冒出了这句话...

WHAT!?! BB是在考验我们吗? 虽然是看到了BB胯下有一小坨"东东"(因为是普通的ultrasound scan而已, 不是很清楚), 但也可能刚好是大便呀... 我一个同事的BB就是由男变女, 让他难过了一阵子.

Dr. Han说等我们去做 20weeks的 Fetal Anomaly Scan时就一定能肯定是男是女了.
就这样, 带着一丝期待, 我们启程到浪漫的北海道啦~

我最喜欢这张了, 好像BB也在看着我们... 大大的头, 小小的肚子... 煞是可爱.

Bedtime Story

2008-07-02T21:08:00.007+08:00

吃饱饭... 在房间休息... 老公刚好洗完澡... 就让他说个故事给BB听... 爱搞怪的老公趴在我身边, 整张脸贴在我肚皮上, 开始用低八度的声音讲故事了(听说宝宝们都喜欢低频率的声音哦!)... 老公本来要讲灰姑娘(不行, 有可恶的后母会吓到BB)和小红帽的故事(不行, BB怕会吃人的大灰狼)... 最后只好选青蛙王子的故事...

"从前从前... 有一只青蛙, 它住在一个粪池里... 它每天只能吃大便, 跳跳跳的过日子. 直到有一天, 一个很美丽的三公主(呵呵... 算你聪明!)来到了粪池玩耍(为什么连我也要和粪池有关?). 然后, 青蛙忽然跳了出来, 公主和青蛙立刻一见钟情(喂~未免太快了吧?). 公主在青蛙的嘴巴吻了一下(好恶喔~它不是都吃粪的吗?). 突然一阵白云出现(是白烟吧?), 青蛙变成了一个英俊潇洒的王子(哦~可惜长得有点矮? 笑~). 原来八百年前, 王子被巫婆(shhh~是魔法师, 不要说巫婆, BB会怕!)下了咒语, 变成青蛙, 一个人生活在粪池, 直到有美丽的公主愿意亲它, 才能恢复身份. "嫁给我吧! 我还以为要等八千年才能遇到你呢!"英俊的王子对公主说. 最后, 他们结婚了, 过著幸福的日子... 生了8个儿子(老公, 不要在女儿面前暗示你喜欢男孩子, BB会难过的)... okok... 生了4个男的, 4个女的. 还有带著他在粪池里生的8千只蝌蚪生活(OMG~你可是公的青蛙ok?). The End... "

老公真是太好笑了... 他说他能在毫无准备的情况下讲了一个这么好的故事已经很不错了... 我也觉得很厉害... 趁还没忘记(怀孕后总觉得记忆力变差了)立刻把故事写在Blog, 让BB以后能知道她爸爸的可爱优点... 哈哈... 希望BB以后也可以遗传一点爸爸搞笑的功力, 每天开开心心的!

Our angel is a girl!

2008-06-18T10:35:00.010+08:00

18th June, I took 2 hrs time off and went tO Raffles Hospital with Yee. Nervous but excited. Nervous as in BB needs to go through down syndrome checkup (First Trimester Screening), excited as in it's reunion time.

After almost 1 hour++ of waiting, while yee was about to lose his patience, finally it was my turn.The main reason y we were willing to spend more money and choose this blood sucking private hospital is to minimise the waiting time. who knows?

Ok, time for 3D scanning. Dr Tony showed us BB's brain, hands, fingers, legs... then suddenly he asked "oh, want to know BB's gender?" We were so surprised that BB's gender could be revealed so early, only 13weeks ler. Definetely we wanted to know. But wait, we were not prepared. "Is a girl!" Then I looked at yee who stood beside me and repeated "is a girl wor".Atfer few seconds of pausing, yee said, "girl also good". "Do you have any preference?", Dr Tony should ask this question before he told us the gender right? Anyway, it wont make a difference, just sooner or later.

Honestly, I felt a little bit disappointed (sorry, BB, mama shouldn't have this feeling on u!). Yee ever told me that he prefers boy long long time ago before we married. For me, I know I will sayang my BB no matter is gal or boy, of course lar, I contribute everything ler, the most that yee contributed is just a string of hair only... haha. However, I think I also prefer boy more as I really want to have a super mini version of yee (yee is considered as mini) and can accompany me while his daddy oncall (I really scared to sleep alone ler!).

My friend told me that, to be able pregnant is already a blessing, so, I really shouldn't be so demanding. Just wish that our little angel will be healthy, papa mama love u very much.

This is to measure the thickness of the neck to ensure the BB dun suffers down syndrome.

拼命一郎

2008-06-09T00:13:00.006+08:00

老公万岁!

在老公的努力之下(几乎准备了1年的时间), 还有宝宝的保佑之下(也来沾点光... 呵呵), 老公第一次就PASS了MRCP Part I. 终于卸下心头大石, 可以休息一下了! 原以为会失败的老公, 从KL回来后还是一直复习, 想说如果FAIL了, 九月份还有一场在新加坡.

不是我老刘卖瓜, 自卖自夸... 我老公真的不是一个简单人物. 除了有过人的毅力, 因为每天除了要应付老婆我无时无刻的干扰(一空闲就要找他玩)和诱惑(骗他一起看电视), 还有不可思议的恒心, 几乎每天都风雨不改的争取每分每秒来读书, 甚至放假也不例外. 当然老公的脑袋更是不用说啦!

夸张的是几天前, 我在房间竟然发现有MRCP Part II的课本呢! 未免也太拼了吧~ -_-

我 . 怀 . 孕 . 了

2008-06-05T16:06:00.001+08:00

放羊的小孩

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话说... 3月中, 我的胃口突然变大, 变好. 旧同事也纷纷开起玩笑说肯定是怀孕了. 那时听了还满心欢喜的回家告诉老公. 老公算了算, 好像真有那么一回事, 恰巧月事也迟了几天. 就在我逼着老公买验孕棒的那几天(因为节俭的老公说要很肯定才验, 不然很浪费钱), 月事, 它竟悄悄的来了. 失望之余, 我们免不了开始担心起不孕的问题. -_-

狼终于来了

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经历过高兴-->期待-->失望-->担忧的3月份, 4月份我为了适应新工作环境, 而老公忙着准备考试, 怀孕的事也就渐渐淡忘了. 4月尾, 胃口开始变差, 以为是工作压力, 后来发现连闻到油烟味也很反感. 老公以为我这放羊的小孩又想占他便宜(因为上次我假借怀孕之名, 骗吃骗喝, 外加家务让他帮忙), 敷衍我再等等呗!

5月初老公终于买了验孕棒回来. 迫不及待的我隔天一大早就摸黑溜进厕所试. 哇, 不到一分钟, 那神奇的两条线就出现了!!! 我立刻把睡梦中的老公摇醒, 让他也看一看. 那一刻, 除了那Surprise的表情, 我仿佛也看见老公露出一丝男人骄傲的微笑... 呵呵!

超明显的!

初次见面
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5月中, 因为老公要到KL考试, 所以我们一家大小上京赴考, 希望像米粒般大小的BB可以保佑爸爸考试顺利... 呵呵! 5月15日, 从KL一回来, 我们就到妇产科挂号. Dr. Han说BB已经7.5Weeks, 可以听到心跳了. 果然, 她用Ultrasound一照, 真的看到了BB在子宫里, 还听到像"万马奔腾"的心跳声. 那一刻, 我们才放下心来, BB是健康的哦, 预产期是12月29日, 还好赶得及是金鼠宝宝.

看到那小不点吗? 就在Preg Sac里头哦!

才12mm...

一起过圣诞吧
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6月5日, 第二次产检, 又照了ultrasound, BB又长大了, 也长出了手脚... 最令我们雀跃的是, 我们竟目睹了BB在羊水中跳跃了好几次, 似乎在为我们一家又见面了而高兴, 实在是太可爱了! Dr. Han说BB已经11.5Weeks了, 预产期又提前到12月23日了, 似乎想和我们一起过圣诞节呢!

Dr. Han把心跳也记录下来给我们呢!

就快5cm了...

回想起来, 我的早孕过程还算不错了, 没有严重的Morning sickness (所以新公司的同事都还不知道), 只是胃口变差了点(只能少量多餐, 好像吃更多呢!), 偶尔头晕晕(只能躲在厕所偷睡, 呵呵), 超累(每天10点不到就想睡觉). 最重要的是, 老公对我非常好(或许是对BB好吧?), 知道我怀有BB后, 每天买牛奶, 豆奶, yogurt, 木瓜囤在冰箱, 更是常带我去吃好料(虽然我胃口不好, 但美食当前, 还是吃得下)... 晚上还会对BB说一些话, 搞笑的话... 哈哈... 真的很幸福, 老公和我终于有自己的宝宝了!

Confidence, Trust, Hope

2008-04-14T23:35:00.002+08:00

*** TAKEN FROM ANOTHER BLOG TO SHARE WITH EVERYONE ***

One day, the villagers decided to pray for rain. On the day of prayer, everyone gathered and only one boy came with an umbrella. That's CONFIDENCE.

When you throw a 1 year old baby in the air, he laughs because he knows you will catch him. That's TRUST.

Every night we go to bed, we're not sure that we'll get up tomorrow, but we still have many plans for the coming day. That's HOPE.

Have Confidence, Trust in God and never lose Hope.

别了... SCS...

2008-03-12T00:04:00.018+08:00

女人, 你的名字叫善变吗? 上一张Post, 我已决定留下来了... 这张Post却是我离开的这一天... 最后的结果, 竟在最后一分钟改变了...

熟悉的位置... 埋头苦干的背影... 今天是最后一天了... 反反复复, 最终还是交了辞呈. 曾以为, 不就是份工嘛, 能有多不舍? 窝囊的我还是放不下那班与我感情甚好的同事, 以后可能很少机会能聚在一块了... 刚升格为人父的Chris, 是Orientation第一个认识的朋友, 我的lunch kaki No.1. Chris也是我的贵人哦, 我能调来这个Department也是因为他的穿针引线. 感激不禁. 希望他找新工作顺利!

Andrew小老弟, 是个多才多艺的"indon", 因为是我的"邻居", 所以他几乎每天一有空就会"皮痒"来找我"讨骂". 虽然不是Gay, 但是他总爱混在我们整班女生里面搞笑. 刚新婚不久的他竟然向Patty和我下战书 -- 看谁先有Baby! 哈哈, when will he ever grow up?

"波涛汹涌"的Christine, 是我们的大姐大, 很会照顾我们哦! 跟她在一起总有莫名的安全感. 、还记得有一次我们开车夜游Orchard Road, 差点迷路也是靠她才回得了家. Christine&Patty(没有Patty的照片, 因为那天她刚好回hometown, 为了她弟弟的婚礼), 也是我的"军师"哦, 从她们身上学到很多关于爱情和婚姻的道理.

我们的Department之光 -- Miss SCS, Raji~~ 因为我们同病相怜(都是contract staff), 所以成了无所不谈的好朋友. Raji, Andrew和我总爱结伴去茶水间, 偶尔还会来场射飞镖比赛(飞镖靶就在饮水机旁边嘛). 再多两个月Raji就要回学校继续她的Degree program了... 要加油哦!

来张大合照... free style... Anna, LayHong, Christine, Chris, 我, Andrew, Raji, Rene&Helen.

哭了... 但我还是会向前看... 对自己做的决定, 我从不后悔... (或许说是我尽量不让自己感到后悔吧!) 放弃熟悉又舒适的环境, 而选择陌生又未知的新环境... 我可是鼓起很大的勇气踏出第一步呢!

Sigh~ 往事也只能回忆了... 大家要保持联络哦...

Department's Dinner gathering, 老板一离场, 立即变成我们的天下, 划拳+斗酒. Andrew的划拳功夫还真不是盖的 -- 整jar都被他灌下肚了!

大夥儿趁Lunch time参加Andrew老弟的Wedding, 终于在那天见到他收藏已久的娇妻(没想到这小子还会害羞, 在他老婆面前几乎变成另外一个人, 呵呵)

一年一度的Dinner&Dance, 我们都盛装出席了... Raji就是在那天为我们的Department赢得荣誉!

看到我们了吗? 可惜Christine和Patty被手遮住了... 可恶!

iHIS Team 的四千金, haha... 还不赖吧! Christine, Patty, Raji & me.

Project MAH的庆功宴 -- 在K-Box飙歌... Christine & Andrew & me几乎整晚都Mic不离手呢!

上司Aslyn请客, 我们叫了pizza, 连D&D赢来的红酒啦, 日本酒也给搬了出来... 整个Conference room都是我们的笑声, 食物的香味... 还有酒气(还是午餐时间呢) :-p

感动~

2008-01-23T00:52:00.000+08:00

"又不是等着你的薪水来开饭"

今天, 我面对着新公司的高薪挖角, 还有在任公司的挽留... 烦都烦死了. 就在我内心高唱着"左右为难"的时候, 老公忽然说了这句话. 我立即醒悟... 让我明白钱不应该是我考虑的唯一条件. 毕竟这里的工作环境还有同事, 我都已经很习惯了, 也相处得很好.

谢谢老公... 爱你哟~ 就凭这句话, 我决定了... 要辞了工作在家当太太!

周杰伦, 够酷, 够帅！

2008-01-19T23:36:00.000+08:00

老公经不起同事的一再怂恿, 终于花了S$400买了周董演唱会的票. 虽然心疼, 但是想想还是值得, 毕竟这么喜欢他, 就当是第一次也是最后一次吧...

没想到是蛮好的位置... \(^o^)/
我们的位置在正中间... 看看四周多爆满... 这是第二场, 第一场是18/01, 还是周董的生日呢...

请人帮我们合照... 呵呵... 还有用来挥动的纸板手.

千呼万唤... 终于在等了半小时后开场了... 可惜没能拍到烟火效果...

帅气地秀高超琴艺...

和徒弟弹头较量... (上次电视看过了... 但是看现场还是一样感动)

复古造型... 还是一样帅!

特别来宾只有南拳妈妈... 有点失望啦...

坐在巨型高跟鞋让性感美眉任摸... 全场女生尖叫... 哈哈(包括我)

中场有dancer跑下台找人跳舞, 亲脸蛋... 趁老公看得入神, 赶紧按下快门... 呵呵...

惊喜~ 竟然会打鼓...

惊喜惊喜~竟然会弹古筝...

最后还"安可"了两次... 不难发现周董当晚心情很好, 虽然声音有点沙哑... 但也唱了很多首歌, 说很多话... 还有跳舞. 不过, 最最惊喜是请了他外婆上台一起跳舞... 感动啦(虽然也是旧桥段)

老公在最后周董唱"霍元甲"和"双节棍"时才high起来(我可是一开场就陷入疯狂状态了)

呵呵... 结婚100天了~

2007-12-27T13:43:00.000+08:00

大家好久不见啦... 虽不想承认, 但是幸福的新婚生活真会让人变得懒散呢! *shy*

不好意思, 婚礼过后就一直在忙工作, 适应新部门, 新同事还有新环境。没错, 我成功申请调去离家更近的分公司, traveling time整整省了2/3. 而且, 新部门专攻医疗的市场,几乎新加坡一半的医院, 诊所和药剂行的系统都是我们负责的... 也包括阿懿所属的National Healthcare Group哦. 呵呵, 假公济私的我可是第一天就调了他的资料来看呢...

谈完工作, update大家关于我们婚后的生活呗... hmm... 其实生活大致上倒是没多大的改变, 不管是家务分配还是财政管理. 如果勉强要找一个不同点, 我想应该是阿懿对我的态度吧... 变得比较能容忍我爱闹别扭的怪脾气了, 所以这100天里, 我们都没有吵超过10分钟的架呢 p(^_^)q

再来是可爱的老爸最近老是问我们几时要生个小宝宝, 哈, 等阿懿赚够奶粉钱就生吧! 再说他还没实现带我去北海道度蜜月的梦想, 现在还遥遥无期呢... T.T 要到明年年中才有假期... 好惨~

Oh, 老公说要关灯睡觉了, 就写到这吧, 我要去帮他暖被了... 最近他刚发bonus, 要听话一点才能A到礼物... 呵呵! 祝大家有个美好的周末... nite nite!

"创意料理" -- 味曾拉面

2007-08-07T13:58:00.000+08:00

"创意料理", baby pingの定义是, 自己从来没料理过, 可以是听过或看过滴, 没有标准のrecipe, 没有特定の材料の"料理". 所以常发生在购买材料滴时候随兴买了不同の材料而必须更换recipe. 又或者买对了材料也不没有更改recipe, 但就是在材料滴搭配上有变动. 即使到煮好滴那一刻还会想说, 如果A配B而不是C就会更好吃吧! 呵呵, baby ping还真不愧为双子座の代表人物呢!

或许baby ping在做菜这方面是有点天分吧, 尽管她到今时今日还是不会煮白米饭(都是请little louis代劳). 一直很感谢他の耐心和毅力, 因为"名厨"亦会有失手的时候, "创意料理"不是每次都会成功滴, 但是他却从来没有嫌弃过. 记得他曾对她说"就算你煮の绿豆汤是没有味道滴, 我也是会整锅喝下去哦!", 超感动呢, 这就是为什么baby ping会喜欢做菜给little louis吃の最主要原因.

话说某天baby ping心血来潮, 技痒又想做做"创意料理"了. 想起上次大姐买のmiso忘了带走, 怕说就要过期了, 不然就拿来试试味道吧! 还没下班, 就开始draft要买什么材料了. 在MRT上想了想又把叉烧肉改成鸡肉, 到了FairPrice看到Bacon又改变主意了...

回到家快8点了, little louis还在睡, 赶紧开始煮. 哎呀! 煮好后才发现忘了买紫菜... 不过"料"已经多到快把Udon面给盖住了... 哈哈, 卖相还不错吧! 虾米!?!嫌汤头有点酸, 可能是Miso放太多了... 人家不管啦... 一定要把它"解决"掉哦!

吃得多开心呀...

It's so cool~

2007-08-03T12:22:00.000+08:00

Yesterday nite, I was playing with my dear's hp -- Sony Ericsson(I can't remember which model is it). Then I found a cool application which is wrap face. Take a look at my master pieces hehe...

See, it can even detect 2 faces at the same time. Amazing right?

出炉了~

2007-08-02T11:10:00.000+08:00

忙茫盲~ 很想update偶のBlog, 但是最近真是太忙了. 忙什么? 呃... 一时之间也说不上来(呵呵, 偶可是一点也不懒哦!), 总之别再罗嗦了, 现在就写给你们~

N个上礼拜, 老公在英国读书の堂妹来拜访咱. 刚好KL工作の朋友也来了, 大家一众人就去游客最旺の乌节路朝拜一下下, 用血给它拼一拼lor....

N-1个上礼拜, 大哥和大嫂大老远来参加朋友の婚礼, 又去了一趟乌节路... 还去了PepperLunch吃... 呵呵, 有点上瘾了. 几天后, 偶中学の朋友(外号Ah Gong)带着我の未来Ah Ma来办点正事, 暂住咱家.
晚餐在Swensen's吃, 没拍几张照... 还叫了Giant Earthquake, 有干冰在中间呢... 可惜来不及拍, 大家就七手八脚的开动了... 三两下就搞定!

未来大哥大嫂

其实大家或许不明白为何每每有人来拜访咱们, 咱们总会特别累, 尤其是长辈级の访客. 说了还真有点羞家, 咱家在平常时候总是有点儿乱(偶尔会到接近狗窝的程度) . 当收到消息有某某某将要亲临, 大家就会"开工", 虽然满累人的, 但是却是咱家至今还没变狗窝的幕后功臣呀!

而且上个月是"Great Singapore Sales"嘛, 不趁机败家, 更待何时? 只是偶还真没败多少, 或许是受老公の影响, 开始比较能分辨"需要"和"想要"吧. 现在的偶们正努力朝共同の目标前进--达到经济独立, 然后退休. 所以, 偶也在很努力地学习着理财哦, 俗语说"你不理财, 财不理你", 希望大家共勉之.

偶滴战利品之一, Chocolate Fondue set! 想买很久了, 大减价时终于得到老公の圣旨. 什么? 你说我还是乱花钱? 但是我只要用个2次就回本了, 懂吗?老师在讲你有没有在听!?! (还真心疼之前の3次, 又贵又少) 而且还能一次这么多人享用, 想要什么水果就什么水果, All you can eat!

加热一下就融化... 还是觉得哈蜜瓜和香蕉最配了... 粉好吃的说...

super busy week

2007-07-05T21:16:00.000+08:00

hehe, I was quite bz these few days (piles of work waiting for me after the holiday back to kch), and oso feeling quite sick(I think I got flu), not in the blogging mood. paiseh paiseh...

so, wat happened last week(24th June)? Our fren got married!!! Due to copyrights and redundancy issue, u may want to visit these 2 blogs and enjoy the photos:

- http://unging.blogspot.com/
- http://hohowetian.blogspot.com/

The wedding was a success and very touching one :-)
Now yee and I were quite stress abt our own wedding... wish that everything goes on smoothly!

The trip back to kch was really tiring, lots of things to settle, renew our passport, choose wedding card, wedding decoration, testing the wedding dinner dishes, buying accessories for the wedding... blah blah... then rushed to Genting to celebrate yee's birthday(29th June).

On our way to Genting. happy... too bad they stopped the cable car service. Ohya, see my new glasses, cute or not? the frame damn cheap, only RM58.

Once checked into the hotel, we rushed to the theme park. pirate ship.

We stay at First world hotel, only RM50 for one standard room + buffet dinner for 2 person... super deal!!

at the lobby of the hotel... pretty ne...

u see, the view from our window... nice... the hotel also know is yee's birthday, so gave us a super nice room.

Then we got free tickets for the magic show from stranger auntie and uncle, too luckily lah! At 1st we still thought they got extra tickets and wanna sell to us, but they gave us FREE!! (u know after that we check from internet, it cost RM65 per ticket ler... wow!) Too bad we lose RM 140 back in the casino... bloody hell Uncle Lim!!

on our train back to Spore... yee was resting coz he still got to work the next morning.

Happy Birthday!

2007-06-21T11:10:00.001+08:00

Happy Birthday to ME ~ Yeah, yesterday was my birthday and yee celebrated with me!!

He came all the way from Yio Chu Kang to Bedok to find me, so happy. Oh~ but there was one thing really annoying, which I MUST COMPLAIN!!! On MRT, we found 2 seats separately by a girl in the middle. Then yee asked her politely whether can switch the seat with her or not so he can sit with me, but that girl was so rude(showed us black face) and said NO! Hey, my birthday wor... just a quick switch oso cannot mer?? walau er~ no wonder she look so so... old yet dun see a ring on her right hand 4th finger! Fine, coz it's my birthday, so I cant curse her, just wish her can get someone that can tahan her!!

Then we stopped at City Hall for dinner. The restaurant I went with Ling and Chin b4, but dunno why, the food just dint taste as good as last time, steak was too hard, only ONE prawn in the fried ramen ler. And the mango milk shake taste like shit, ugh~ I can't even finish it. Anyway, yee was quite happy, coz one the waitress is very pretty and look so gentle one...

yee dun dare to take photo with her, so I did it for him(see? I'm so kind!), she was a bit shocked that I praised her and wanted to shoot a photo with her... really a nice person compare to that girl on MRT... Grrhhh~~

After dinner I asked yee, got present for me or not? He gave me this ring and started telling me how bargain this ring he bought. But in fact he dunno that he been cheated by the promoter, this story I will continue later...

Since I birthday I "dai sai" (in cantonese). I asked yee to bring me to Andersen's of Denmark for chocolate fondue after dinner and he agreed. See wat we ordered? So happy... Then we acted like ah beng and ah lian, on the hp mp3 loud loud while enjoying our chocolate fondue. hiak hiak hiak...

This's the new water fountain in suntec city, it's amazing, seems like the water drops are moving from down to up, then up to down, so real... wow~ to see is to believe, next time u visit suntec, must go check it out urself...

Ok, so now I continue the story of the ring. On our way back to MRT station, we passed by a SK Jewellery shop, then yee suggested that we change the size of the ring here. When we got in, we saw the same ring, and it marked "*$279", then I told yee, "see? the discounted price is oredi 279, wat good bargain ur promoter gave u?". "huh? how come? The promoter told me that it's $389 after discount and when he saw me walk away, he gave me final offer 280 personally, so I bought it within 5 mins..." Then yee got very angry when we confirmed with the promoter here that it's the exact same ring he bought at NOVENA branch that afternoon. The promoter here helped us to call that store to confirm abt the deal and in the end free us the fee of amending the ring's size. :-p

Yet, yee still not very happy, haha, so we went to NOVENA there to ask for explanation. Finally, thing settled when the manager of that liar promoter apologized to us and said "sorry, it's a misunderstanding...". Actually when i saw that promoter, just feel that he's not that kind of liar who try to cheat us intentionally, coz he looked abit innocent and a bit nerd nerd...

Then on the way back home, I asked yee, y we want to waste time, money(mrt fee), and effort to come here and get nothing? Guess wat he said? "Everyday I kena scolded and complained from seniors and patients, too many "怨气" inside me, so I need to let some of them out... haha, feeling much better now. And now I can understand why those ghosts with "怨气" one are the most powerful ghost... " Wahaha... yeah, that's him, my super funny bf hubby. He may not handsome, not romantic, not gentleman... but he's funny, whenever I look at his face, I will laugh(even when I very angry with him). That's y I love him, he makes my life full of laughters :-D

THANK YOU, DEAR!

Together Is The Nicest Place To Be

2007-06-18T09:42:00.000+08:00

Last weekend, I went shopping for our wedding stuff. Spent alot, but very de happy... coz I finally got our 1st Precious Moments® 's figurine!!! Every figurine has a title and meaning. I bought "Together Is The Nicest Place To Be" figurine, which means "When you love someone, there's no place you would rather be than right beside them." :">

Actually both yee and I saw it few weeks ago, and we were like "wow, so cute this one, just like wat we always do".We ~~never~~ seldom see eye to eye with each other so much on one thing, u know? Then that was the 1st time my dear said, ok, we can buy it! (we dint buy it immediately as this cutie is not cheap, cost S$119!!! So, I said, I'm gonna do some research online 1st...)

When I show it to my dear that night, he was shocked and said, "aiyaa, actually I planned to buy it for ur birthday!" (my birthday is 20th June!! *u know wat to do lar, hehe*)... then I was like -_- so sad, again, no more surprise on my birthday. But I really can't wait another second to own this cutie mar... I was so scared that it might sold out soon... haha... I admit that I'm the kind of person that must get wat I want immediately...

I'm bringing it back to kch this weekend and to decorate our new room! \(^o^)/

Shall we walk?

2007-06-14T11:21:00.000+08:00

Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.

Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.

Just walk beside me, hand in hand.

紫菜摇摇薯条!

2007-06-05T12:23:00.000+08:00

昨晚10:30pm左右, 我和我的dear在房间里看电视. 忽然, 电视播起McDonald的广告... 紫菜摇摇薯条(Seaweed Shake Shake French Fries)... YUMMY~ 我忽然间好想好想品尝它的美味, 立即突发奇想的对我的dear说"Dear, 帮我打包紫菜摇摇薯条, 可以吗? 可以吗?"(像杨丞琳一样装可爱).
他呆了几秒钟然后问我"现在?". 我对着他微笑点头, 我知道我在耍着任性.
"这么晚了... 明天帮你买好吗?"... 那不是我要的答案, 所以我摇头.
"不行... 要现在, 马上, 立刻... " 我已经分不清我是真的想吃还是想考验我的dear了. 应该是后者吧...
如果他二话不说的拿起皮夹, 我会阻止他的, 一定会的.
我知道我的dear不是浪漫主义者, 是忠诚的现实派... 但是我偶尔会抱住一丁点希望, 希望可以激发他的浪漫因子...

... 到最后我们叫了外送...等了一个钟(其实家和McDonald的距离只有15分钟)...
薯条有点冷, 有点软... 加上紫菜粉摇一摇... hmm... 还差一个味道 --- "浪漫".

JB outdoor 2007

2007-06-01T09:49:00.000+08:00

Yesterday, we went to JB's Desaru for our JB outdoor shooting...

We saw lots of sea cockroaches. My dear were so scared... and I threatened him that will put one in his pants... LOL

We found this giant crab(not sure is crab or not, it got tail, just like scorpion)... more like alien... (-_-)

I like this one very much... the sea is really beautiful... so clear and so blue...

Almost "走光"... hehe...

We really look like having great fun there... but in fact, we got attacked by mozzie, red ants, sea cockroaches, flies... and some "Unidentified Flying Insects"...

The photographer said we need to find some stick to write our name on the sands... let c what my dear found... haha... kena teased by the photographer that this is wood... not stick... LOL

We decided to write this... as I dun hav a Christian name... sad...

This one took by HT... he said he felt that this wood (or stick?) is beautiful... I agreed

Surprise that there's still swings near the beach... but I very scare as alot of red ants underneath the swings... and I need to swing abit and jump to the front to get down the swings...

we were so so tired... after playing with the water... haha...

u see, the beach is not so clean... no ppl maintain at all... but I think the photo can be touch up by photoshop lar...

first... I pretend to sleep... then he kiss me... I'm not supposed to smile, u know?

But hor... too itchy lar... he dint shave yesterday... haha... in the end I cannot tahan and laugh...

I think he look good in this pic... and cute... like a little gentleman...

I like this one too...

haha... we r acting cute again...

our photographer... Max...

yeah~ so happy lar, 70% of our photo shooting finished... and we are quite happy with the photos... luckily they divided into 3 days... else we will be too tired and not having fun at all... and I'm so scare that my dear will show his temper if get too tired... but u see... he was the one enjoyed the most... haha...

Singapore outdoor 2007

2007-05-28T10:01:00.000+08:00

Special thanks to my sister and ~~her bf~~ my brother in law. They accompanied us whole day like our nanny, helped us to carry this and that, bought food for us, took those photo for us(they look nice and professional, dun u think?), gave opinions... really appreciated... :-)

Anyway, the outdoor shooting wasn't as tiring as we thought, in fact quite relax and fun, maybe becoz it just took half day... And we had special experience... e.g. got ang mo thought that we r just 16-19, they took our photo too, and some indian girls want shooting with us too... haha... and alot of ppl stare at us when we shoot the photo in the fun fair... really amusing... so *shy* and it was the day that we both been called "帅哥美女" the most in our life...

This thursday we will have another outdoor shooting at Desaru, JB (a beach)... will upload again...

p/s: those photos havn't touch up yet...

US$0.03

2007-05-25T16:16:00.000+08:00

haha... I started to earn money through the googleAds that I just registered on my blogger 2 days ago... although by today I only earned US$0.03. It's cool... I put a referral link in my blog, if u guys r interested to earn extra pocket money... this is an easy way... and pls(I beg u) click my referral link to register ur acc... (thanks for contributing to my wedding fund!)

I think I should start to introduce my blog to all my frenz... coz I think it's abt time. No.. no... I'm not doing this becoz of that US$0.03... yeah, not even enough to pay for a toothpick... However, it's another way of passive income right? I'm smart investor mar, need to "开源节流"...

幸福就是能够...

2007-05-24T10:19:00.000+08:00

Back from Phuket

2007-04-02T15:47:00.000+08:00

tada... we were back from beautiful Phuket... hehe, still in the holiday mood. I have to work today while my dear still relaxing at home, he only start his work next week... damn so good.
We really enjoyed alot there, although we got some quarrels, but all the while was perfect. His parents really took good care of us, ya... we went with his parents, not alone... so stop thinking dirty... haha...
We experienced lots of our 1st time there... tried thai massage(need to take off all my clothes ler... *shy*), speed boat, snokerling, jet ski, traditional thai food, even the famous Thailand men(they said lady boyz) show... haha... super siok... sure wanna visit there again... probably stay at another beach...
Ohya, I discovered that all the girls in Phuket wore bikini... so admired. I asked my dear to get me one, but he refused. However, him always look around to search for those ang mo that sun bath in naked... so annoying! Haha, nolar... I am so kind-hearted gf, even helped him to search... :-p
We spent abt S$3-4k for 4 persons(tickets+hotel+foodnPlay). As compare to gold coast, it's cheap, but we found it even more cheaper when we went to the town(far from the phuket beach)... food, clothes, cosmetic... all half price, even cheaper than in M'sia.
I havn't edit those photos, and not sure we want to show our face in the blog or not... anyway, everything still in progress...

Wedding plan

2007-03-14T12:09:00.000+08:00

Though few weeks ago got quarreled with my family regarding the wedding stuff... now everything seems to be solved(Hopefully no more other issue). Everyone should compromise in order to get the best interest for everyone, right? :-)

Louis and I will keep our wedding as simple as possible. That's wat I decided after deep thoughts. All I want is a happy n blessed wedding, a husband that love me as much as I love him. We want to save money for honeymoon and dun wish to use up most of our saving(that's for our dream of becoming financially independence soon).

About the wedding rings... hmm... will not buy a big diamond ring(Louis did insist to buy me one 0.5 carat one... so touched, but I think it's a waste of money as I will only wear it once on the wedding day. And it's not so convinience while working, especially in msia, I really dun want to have my finger chop off by the robbers, right?) So, we will look for couple rings only... budgeting 2k for both of us...

And, I really need to start catching up my flash skills... I planned to design a website for our own wedding... include some animation, music... I want it to be fully designed by me! Ohya, if got time, will help my sis to design one too. Hmm... mayb I can start a small business by doing this in future... hohoho...

Louis's parents will go my house this weekend for our wedding discussion. Hope everything goes on smoothly... *prayed*

getting Married soon :-)

2007-02-28T14:44:00.000+08:00

OMG~ I guess my dream really came true -- becoming a wife. Haha, now u know how deperated I am, wanting to get married so much. YES, I'm really "恨嫁" type of girl, especially after seeing most frenz getting married happily, some even had babies oredi, so cute... kawaii ne!
Actually, yee havn't proposed to me yet(I mean formally with flower, diamond ring, dinner, etc). The trigger point was yesterday nite when we argued abt the future wedding plan, which he want it to be simple but I want it to be luxurious. (Hey, that's a dream for every single girls on earth ok?) Then he said it's impossible as the decision has made by his Dad, I was so upset and cried in the bedroom... Later he came in to comfort me, told me that he was planning to propose to me after he promoted to MO(in April) and planning to marry me by end of this year. Haha, that reminds me of last time when we quarrelled and he dunno how to comfort me and just gave me the Valentine's Day gift in advance(which he been hidding it for sometimes)... so, no more surprise on that day. But since Ling and HT r getting marry during the CNY 2008, we have no choice but to make decision whether to be 4 mths earlier or later(My parents' claimed that it's not good to have 2 daughters get married within such short period of time).

Anyway, I dun care, I know that yee really love me and want to marry me and have our own babies(I kept asking him all nite if he regret of saying that, but the answer was NO, hehe)... As for me, I oredi love him so much, want to live together with him for my whole life, addressed each other as husband and wife... so, YES YES YES, I DO... hahaha *shy*

And, I called Dad and Mom abt this great news, they sound a bit worried whether we r too rush or wat, and help me to check if I'm suitable to get marry in Oct. If the Date is not ok, then we will have to wait till mid of 2008 or end of 2008(Which both yee and I tot that it will be too late)... Let's hope the date is perfect. *pray*

... to be continue

I want to keep fit!!!

2007-02-09T13:51:00.000+08:00

I'm not fat at all... the reason I want to keep fit is to maintain my weight till CNY. I bought a new dress yesterday nite. OMG~ it's so pretty that I instantly paid for it without second thought eventhough there's no larger size for it. Not regretting at all, as I fit perfectly well in it, hmm... just impossible to zip if I gain another 0.00001kg haha. But hey, I did ask for a larger size, too bad they only left Medium size which looked too big for me(I bought extra small size). What to do? I really love it. It cost me abt S$100.

This remind me of last weekend, when I went Orchard to shop with my sis, Ling. We been there for abt 6 hrs, headache and exhausted, but we found nothing!!! So, can u imagine how excited I was when I finally found it? I got my 1st new year dress!!! Dun have to worry anymore... yeah~~

I got S$500 budget to shop, which louis granted me after the day we quarrelled(of course I won!) So, what's more to shop? A pair of new shoes(which I target in bishan shopping centre), and handbag, a shirt... hmm... tonite will switch the battle field to suntec city... hehe (wait for me yeah)

p/s: Love u, dear, I shop because I want to make u proud ok?

Should I feel happy that my contract being extended?

2007-02-02T10:20:00.000+08:00

This morning, my Modules Leader told me that there's a good news for me... I thought it will be transfering me to another team(which means more new work to do and learn). Huh? I knew u will ask y I considered more work as good news? Of course, I have been working like 1-2 hours everyday(just few small bugs to catch) since December when the UAT started... most of the time I just surfing around the net. It was cool actually(especially after been OT for quite sometimes), but soon I found it boring and making my brain stupid as not much thinking occured.

But, I'm a bit happy too as I got the chance to learn abt the stock market, world eco and finance, blah blah blah... all related to how to earn money from stock... and it ended up quite good as the money is rolling... hehe... bigger and bigger...

ok, back to the contract topic. Should I be happy for it? Nah... XXXX lah. The truth is I'm expecting more, like probably an increment, converted to permanent staff(will be eligible for AWS and Bonus) or transfered to another branch which is near to where I stay(That will definitely reduced my travelling time to half an hr or less)... but among all, my main concern is to be converted to permanent staff. I'm planning to sell myself out by end of the yr or propably the begining of next yr*shy* If I'm still a contract staff, company might discontinue my contract after I get married, afraid that I might get pregnant and need to take maternity leave for 2 mths... I came across few cases that happened to female contract staff and I dun want to be one of them... (although I sure that my future husband can afford all my living expenses... hehe)

I wish to work and earn as much as I can with little louis so we can achieve financial independence earlier. That's our goal for the age of 40, we r just 25 now, that means we still have 15 yrs. It's impossibe for me to wait till that time only get pregnant. I love children... so do my little louis... we have so many plans on how to grow them up... and of course to play with them too... so lovely, isn't it?

So, I'm now not very happy abt the Company, abt the HR, abt the project Mgr, abt my team lead... blah blah... I decided not to fix any bugs today... haha... good... feeling much better now...

remind me of wat little louis taught me. "May you burn in hell. Shocked? Don't be, there's more to come. Your life will be as miserable as u wished that u never know me." LOL

it's weekend again... hiak hiak hiak

2007-01-19T17:31:00.000+08:00

Oh~ it's weekend again, really fast... salary will be in today or maybe tmr... happy :-)
This weekend a bit busy, lots of programs planned. Firstly, it will be my 1st time to visit facial treatment. I think it will be really nice that someone can serve me like a queen. Don't u gals agree that doing facial by ourselves is really troublesome and tiring? After that, I want to go SHOPPING... yeah~ Chinese New Year is coming really soon, countdown for 1 mth only. And, I haven't buy any nice dress yet... (little louis: dear, I thought u bought new skirt and blouse last weekend? babyping: er... that's formal dress... for working only, now is CNY wor... *shy*) I will budget abt 200 dollar? Hmm... mayb can increase a bit, just wish that the bull run last longer, the I can spend more... However, I'm a bit worry abt the rumous of Correction which will be around the CNY.
Ohya, need to clean the house oso ler... house become quite(yes, I only said quite) dirty and lots of laundry need to be done *Sigh*.

Home Alone

2007-01-04T17:45:00.000+08:00

Yesterday nite, I was alone... yeah, just me... in the big big house. My elder sister still in Korea trip with her honey, my younger sister went to KL with her friends. Where was my dear? Too bad, he was oncall... wat a coincidence!
My dear offered me to sleep in his bed in the hospital (secretly for sure!) so he can accompany me. But, that's sio... I bet everyone knows that hospital is well-known of wat, right?
Of course, I wasn't afraid... was I? I just dun like to feel lonely, it made me upset... down... feel like everyone abandoned me...
I turned on the light in the bedroom, felt cold even I dint on the air-con. Outside was raining cats and dogs, freezing. I covered myself with the thick blanket and forgot when I fall asleep... but I can slightly remember that I did hear something... although I placed all the pillows around me and with a piece of cloth covered on my eyes...
This morning when I got up, it was oredi 7am. I was late!!! I rush as fast as I can(normally I need at least 30 mins to get everything done, and today I took only 10 mins... Amazing)
I swear no more next time... if they all dare to let me home alone again... I will kill them... hmm... maybe just dun talk with them for a week... haha...

sad... really sad...

2006-12-08T17:44:00.000+08:00

today my share drop alot~~ really sad...
all the money that earned previously gone... just gone like that in one day...
today STI drop abt 38++... I thought it oredi broke 2900... how come still drop so much?
Am I making the right decision? to hold? to sell? OMG, how?

super bz week

2006-12-04T16:59:00.000+08:00

for the past few weeks... life was really bz... feel like dying...
however, I managed to update my resume for the application of the new job... felt happy...
little louis was a bit mad at me, coz this job requires to travel to US for training... yet, I still applied... I'd like to give it a try... that's an opportunity, isn't it?

Application for Software Engineer (Java Swing)

2006-11-20T11:32:00.000+08:00

Had a great chat with my best fren from kch this morning. As usual, we complained abt our "the other half"... haha... really nice, feeling much better after that.
In the end, we concluded that we girls MUST have our own career, cannot stupidly sacrifies ourselves for them(the BFs or Husbands) as they wont appreciate after they get used to it. Dun u agree?
And u know, life's so short... which one would u choose? to go for ur own dream or to sacrify for ur loved one? (incase u can't have both of them the same time) hmm... tricky? No matter which one u give up, u'll regret. Most of the girls face this situation. And my Fren, who's gonna be a mum, have to give up her dream of getting a degree for her baby and husband.
Y guys never have to make such decision? Y they can have both at the same times? Y they always thought that earning money for the family is their only responsiblility?
That's selfish... but they never admit...
My fren is right, better work and earn the money ourselves then to ask from the guys... at least we dun have to "see the color of their face"... dun have to feel timid in front of them... gerr~~
And oso the housework, should be shared between both, not the girls only.
The point is, I'm gonna give it a try on this job. I dunno whether I can get shortlisted or not, but I must try. This is a great job that I always dream of, I'm not going to give it up just becoz of my dear want me to stay by his side all the while... He never stands on my shoes, He dun really have time to accompany me too... y must I always there for him whenever he needs me? That's not fair... and dun tell me that I need to prove my love to him that way... it's nonsenses!
I know I love him, but I'm not his mother that can sacrify everything for him... somemore wat I did all the while for him... he just dint appreciate... sometimes I just wonder which one of him is the one I 1st met and love? Tired, I think I should have get back all the thing I have b4... my frenz... my own social life... my dreams... everything and everything that I give up little by little for him (that I'm not aware of)...
so, new job... I'll prepare myself well enough to go for it... even if I fail in the end... I have no regret as I have give my best (sounds familiar... LOL)

p/s: It's a USA company, headquarters in Silicon Valley. A job abt Java Swing(programming + design) How can I ever find a job that combines both my interest? Somemore, if I'm lucky enough to get hired, I'll have to travel to USA for training... COOL, isn't it? Wish me luck!

好心情的一天

2006-11-17T12:45:00.000+08:00

好久没update我我们的blog了... 最近真的很忙... OT很多... 好累喔... 真想放自己一个长假去旅行... 还有4个月我的contract就完了... 可以趁机休息下再找好一点的工作... 有了这一年的工作经验... 我对下一份工很有信心... 也或许会留下来... 就看他们的诚意啦... :-p

老公说想以后专攻外科... 因为他爱上了动手术... (我想可能是那科的护士美眉较多呗... haha)
我真有点担心, 没有别的... 就外科超超超级忙的, 压力大更是出了名的(连我这外行都嘛知道)... 只担心以后见到他的日子是越来越少了... sob sob...

这几天股市到处都是牛在乱跑... 捞了不少"牛粪" (开心ing)
又是Happy Friday了, 时间过得真快... Ling今天也很有空... 陪我MSN chatting...
总而言之... 今天心情特好... 希望一切顺顺利利到下班... 过个快乐的weekend...

I'm a detective... hoho

2006-11-15T09:57:00.000+08:00

This was the interesting thing happened 2 weeks ago... I still kept the sms in my hp... hiak hiak hiak :-D

*buzz... buzz...*(hp vibrating sound) oh... one sms came in... let's see who's it(who else could it be?).

"Dear, my XX is 1.21. We earn 800 dollars already. Dun call me genius please... Anyway, u wanna go Jap? Hey yo, small prob" -- Yee

wow! so happy... we earned that much within few days... (today, it's 1.27 oredi... hehe)

"Then u want to sell or hold?" -- Ping

"Of course is hold untill it rise to 8 or 9 dollars like tat" -- Yee

... wait a second, how can he know the share is now 1.21? He always has lots of work to do, not even have time for messaging baby ping...

"Where got share can keep rising till tat high one? Better discuss tonite? Dear, we go Japan honeymoon lah. Ohya, u always said bz, still can check stock?" -- Ping

after a while (really quite a while)... only he replied...

"HT msg me one" -- Yee

... hehe... I got u, dear!

OT days... tired but happy...

2006-10-23T13:01:00.000+08:00

Last week was a bz week, I have to work OT for the whole week. I wasn't upset by the heavy workload, instead I was touched by wat little louis did.

(7:30pm)
little louis: u have to OT tonite?
baby ping: yaya... u eat by urself ok? I will go back by taxi...
little louis: no, it's quite dangerous... I'm worry...
baby ping: wont be lah... spore is safer...
little louis: .... when will u finish ur work? I come to "fetch" u...
baby ping: dun want lah, it'll be quite late... I want u to go home (at woodlands) and rest earlier...
little louis: nvm, I want to come... I go bedok to find u... (at novena now)
baby ping: but I can only leave the company not earlier than 9pm...
little louis: ok, I go take my dinner 1st, then wait for u outside ur company... deal!
baby ping: okok... give me a call when u arrive... (touched x 1)

(9:00pm)
baby ping: (THINKING) *hmm... y so late still no call? ... nvm, I continue my work...*

(930pm)
baby ping: (THINKING) *hmm... mayb I should give him a call...*

doo doo... doo doo... (baby ping calling little louis)

little louis: hello? u havn't done? I oredi waited outside... (dint sound like losing patience)
baby ping: er?? I tot u will give me a call when u arrived? okok, I off my pc now...

(hurry hurry switch off pc and leave office...)

baby ping: wat time u arrived? (saw little louis sitting on the floor besides the guard house)
little louis: abt 30 mins ago...
baby ping: huh? y don't u call me hp? (touched x2)
little louis: I tot u'll come out at 9pm... nvm, let's take taxi home...
baby ping: ok... wat is that? u tapao? u havn't have ur dinner? (saw the tapao)
little louis: nope, I finished them...
baby ping: u finished them here? outside of my office? (look at him with watery eyes, touched x3)
little louis: hehe... I tot I might be late, so just tapao here to eat while waiting for u...

really touched isn't it? baby ping gave little louis a hug and said "I love u"... *shy*

After that, everyday of that week, he came to "fetch" her back from OT... so sweet of him...

c'est la vie

2006-10-15T17:09:00.000+08:00

"LOVE YOUR JOB, BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN THE COMPANY STOPS LOVING YOU" - Narayana Murthy

Find it meaningful, wish to share with everyone whoever read my blog... especially to those workaholic... haha...

p/s: "c'est la vie" means that's life in french... (just in case u might... er... happened to be not knowing it)

Thanks God for bringing us together...

2006-10-13T14:27:00.000+08:00

While waiting for my new assignment... there's nothing much I can do. All the bugs were cleared, I'm really impressed by myself hehe. So, I just surfing around and check my yahoo and hotmail, which I dint login for almost 1 mth... amazing, isn't it? Just too lazy to online at home, after been staring at the screen for such a long hours in the office.

Again, when it comes to those emails that little louis sent to me, the pointer just automatically click on them. I have to admit that I really enjoy reading them, repeatedly, every sentences and words r the witness of our love, though some of them r quite stupid and funny. Anyway, I'm glad that we kept them(hmm... just too bad few of them were missing).

Nowadays we dun email each others anymore, mainly bcoz we r living together and oso quite bz with our works. However, I do hope that there's something we can do to keep every memory(no matter sweet or bitter) that we can refresh back in the future or even showing to our children, grand-children. That's the purpose of this blog, the story of us and our love...

Although now, I keep it to myself without letting little louis know... hehe, I'm gonna show him one day(hope soon), when we get married... as a gift to him :-)

Dear, to be in love with u is one of the most wonderful thing that happens in my life... u know? *shy*

男人永遠不懂：女人說分手，是爲了被挽留

2006-10-12T13:52:00.000+08:00

"每一次說分手，女人都會很害怕，怕你們會真的離去，每一次說分手，女人都很期待，期待你們的挽留，讓她知道你在乎他，你舍不得她走，每一次說分手，女人都很無奈，你的一些微妙變化讓她不再肯定你是否還那樣愛她，所以她拿放棄做賭注，如果輸了，隻是你真的不夠愛她！每一次當分手成了事實，女人會傷心欲絕，男人爲什麽不懂女人的心思？

女人說分手，隻是真的愛你！隻是太在乎你！隻是你的一些微妙變化讓女人恐慌！讓女人心不安！隻是女人想弄明白你是否還愛着她？ "

总觉得这段话很有道理, 所以就post上来了... 当然男人可以参考, 前提是你必须很肯定她是不是还爱着你... 不然, 分手就只是分手而已...

钱不够用

2006-10-11T12:51:00.000+08:00

baby ping: when can we retired?
little louis: when we r financially independent...
baby ping: when will it be? till we have 1 million?
little louis: hmm... maybe.
baby ping: then we only can go traveling by that time?
little louis: nolar, we can go Japan in March next year.
baby ping: but... I thought we r suppose to go Japan for honeymoon...
little louis: can go Japan 1st, honeymoon we go Europe.
baby ping: cannot ler, go Japan need S$5000 for 2 person... it's too expensive...
little louis: ohya hor...
baby ping: we go cruise 1st, ok?
little louis: ok...
baby ping: then honeymoon go Japan...
little louis: ok...
baby ping: then we go Europe when we retired, ok?
little louis: ok...

money money money... when will we have enough of u or when will we feel enough?

又回来了...

2006-10-09T12:41:00.000+08:00

讨厌... 又回到新加坡了(也不是说讨厌这里... 只是很想念Kuching, 想待久一点嘛...)
很想花多点时间陪家人, 但是这次的行程太赶了, 连朋友都来不及聚聚... 不能看到大着肚子的好友, 有点遗憾... (好想摸摸哦~~)

还有, Ling订婚了, 说不羡慕是骗人的. 不过, 我不懂我和Yee是不是也已准备好进入另一个阶段... hmm... 还太早吧? Ling他们可是拍了9年的拖... 小巫见大巫... 呵呵~

哦, 对了, 我支持的Alonso在日本站得第一了, YEAH YEAH ~~ 看着他手舞足蹈的样子和在上海站的苦瓜脸... 真是个直性子的人... 心情都写在脸上了... 真可爱! 一家欢喜一家愁, Schumi几乎是跟这季冠军无缘了... 其实我并没有很讨厌Schumi, 只是我眼里只能容纳一个冠军... 那就是Alonso. 所以, Schumi, 你就看开点吧, 长江后浪推前浪呀...

p/s: 老公啊, 你就别难过了, 还是早点加入我的行列吧... 呵呵 p(^o^)q

Fernando Alonso

2006-10-02T09:22:00.000+08:00

昨天F1在上海站开跑, little louis和baby ping都很兴奋的在支持自己喜欢的车队(看电视啦, 不是现场... hehe).

little louis: 当然是车神Michael Schumacher会赢啦... 他都要退休了...
baby ping: 屁啦~ 我说Fernando Alonso赢定了, 他排位赛得第一耶!
little louis: Alonso是蛮厉害的年轻车手... 可能以后Schumacher退休, 我就和你一起支持Alonso...
baby ping: 好吧... (满意ing)

刚开始还好, Alonso一直领先, 虽然Schumacher(车的性能好罢了)一辆一辆的超车. 可是到了中场, Alonso的车好像出现问题, 速度慢了下来... 到最后还被那可恶的Schumacher超车了... Alonso好可怜哦, 他真是我看过最年轻, 最有实力也最拼的车手了... 最感动的是那段2个Renault联手对付Ferrari时, 不让Schumacher超车. 好感人哦~~

现在只剩最后两站了, Alonso的压力一定很大吧... 上海站的失败是个很大的打击. baby ping希望Alonso可以坚持到底得到最后的胜利... Schumacher的时代应该结束了, Alonso会做得比他更好...

期待日本站, Alonso会带来惊喜... Good Luck!!

p/s: 虽然不是长得帅, 但是很可爱, 很老实, 很腼腆的一个大男孩 ;-)

What a happy week

2006-09-29T10:57:00.000+08:00

Well, few good things happened and going to happen(I wish) recently...

1. I've got my PR... finally.
2. My dear and I earned 300 dollar just in 2 days, from the stock market... and it's still rolling... Cool~
3. My colleague gave me a package of "wedding sweets", so cute and nice... wanna show-off to Ling tonite, hehe...
4. Next week, we're all going back to kuching... it has been a long time since we came to here. Miss everyone there so much. We just managed to go back for 3-4 days, took 2 days annual leaves + weekend. Really have to thank Ling and Howe Tian, if wasn't for their engagement, we might have to wait till Chinese New Year. Thank you and congratulations to them.
5. Ohya, Natas fair STARTED today~! Planning to go tmr and grab some freebie or gift + look for some really cheap tour packages or maybe cruises for this year end.
Let's c wat I'll get tmr. Ling and Howe Tian planned to go Taiwan or Korea, but I prefer Japan and China... where do u prefer, dear?
Opps... almost forgot to call "Hai Ba Wang" restaurant to make reservation. It always FULL during special occasions, hopefully there's still seat for us... hmm... do I have to reserve the big CRABs too... haha, u bet.

爱情无须讲道理...

2006-09-25T13:23:00.000+08:00

又吵架了, 我们. 已经是第二次吵得那么严重了...

开始只是小事, 可是他一点诚意也没有, 最后当我小姐脾气的瘾一上来, I'm sorry, 太迟了... 任他劝, 哄, 道歉... 就是不妥协.
后来他也受不了了, 开始和我对骂, 越骂越火...大数对方的缺点, 什么旧帐都翻出来了...
当然也吵不出个所以然... 没办法下, 他又只好认错了...
可是气头上的我哪听得进去? 我也知道自己有错, 但被他骂得这么凶... 哪里咽得下这口气? 更何况是他有错在先嘛... 我坚决要分手, 分房睡... 他不肯, 又把房门堵住, 那只好将就下我睡床他睡地了(半夜他想摸黑爬上床? 还是被机灵的我一脚给踹下去了... 哈哈)

隔天, 他请我吃pizza hut, 说什么分手了也可以重新追求... 死缠烂打的逗我笑...
明知我最吃这招了... 不一会儿, 我就忍不住气笑了, 原谅他了... 过后, 他说不敢再用"硬"招来对付我了... 毕竟我是吃软不吃硬的嘛!!

I'm bored

2006-09-22T10:03:00.000+08:00

Time is passing like snail... I'm sick of my work... really boring... when can I go off?
Again, nothing much happened today... just testing this stupid system + catching bugs...
I really feel like wanna shout out loud "wat the f***" (haha... too rude isn't it? but that's how I feel right now)
Luckily weekend is around the corner, else I will gone crazy...
Is there anything else I can do? help me~ save me~ haha... just give me a gun to kill myself...

well, something interesting found, I googled with my name... found a girl with the same name as me, in Spore!!! Hoho... she's younger than me, just started to work... she sound quite happy in her blog... alots of friends... cool... hmm, I'm happy for her, really. Too bad can't load her photos, abit curious abt how she'd look like?

oh... wait... another one... M'sian... just secondary school, getting 8As in here SPM... congratulations :-) !

hmm... mayb there's still more... coz it found 48,000 records in googles... lazy to continue searching, anyway, knowing that there r lots(assuming since more than 2) of "me" living in this world, really cool... amazing... I'm not alone, u c...

still got 30 more mins to go... happy... get back to work 1st...

and u, after reading this... dun try to google with ur name, haha... that's really boring... idiot!!

I'm confused...

2006-09-21T12:49:00.000+08:00

recently, I've been asking myself that wat kind of future do I really want?
er... I've no idea, maybe I should start to plan for the coming 5 to10 yrs 1st.
my sister and my brother in law to be are planning to get their Master degree, which I found out few days ago... I was kinda shocked~ only realize that I'm lost(for quite some times...)!!!
I duno whether I still very keen in programming or not(OMG~ I'm doubting abt my profession)... Undeniable, IT world is changing super fast... it becomes more and more difficult for me catching up new skills. Is this the so called "bottleneck"?
I'm tired, mentally... maybe this isn't the right job for me... I've been pushing myself alot. Plus, not really getting along well with my "new" colleagues... I'm not sure whether it's due to different racial, nationality or just culture... to conclude, I hate my current situation, yeah, damn it... :-p
Well, wat I'm dealing with is just only coding, debugging (although they gave me the title of Application Specialist) furthermore, I'm only allowed to touch the front-end, which I've been doing for the past 2-3 yrs. I wanna try something else... more abt analysis, architecture stuff, more back-end design... very sick with the jsp, javascript, struts, action bean, form bean, blah blah blah... all r just the same, not even challenging...
ok, fine, if this company dun provide me with opportunities, there'll always be another company. I applied for Spore PR few weeks ago, once I'm qualified... definitely I'll start hunting for a new job... so, hopefully I can hear from the immigration soon...

I'm NOT afraid to sleep alone... just afraid of darkness

2006-09-20T16:00:00.000+08:00

well, little louis is oncall tonite... needless to say, baby ping will have to sleep alone...
she is not afraid of being alone... just not feeling comfortable in the darkness, she'd imagine that "something" might be hiding "somewhere" in the darkness...
Always thinking of getting a small table lamp, so that she won't have to switch on the light all nite long, that's a waste of electricity(izzit brighter consumes more electricity?). According to an article, certain level of brightness will reduce the quality of sleep... but who cares if she can't even fall asleep, right?
the room is too big for one person... so is the bed, king size somemore... miss little louis very much. Duno whether he got the chance to sleep for few hours or not... tmr still have presentation (wat kinda hospital like this? damn it!)

...... hmm... tired, it's time to go to bed... nite nite, dear little louis!

忘不了的浪漫回忆

2006-09-19T14:59:00.000+08:00

最近... 不, 应该是little louis开始工作后, baby ping 时时刻刻都会想起那段浪漫的澳洲之旅... 每每那些幸福温馨的片段总是一声不响的自动在脑海里播放...重覆着... 这些片段总是神奇的让baby ping不自觉的傻笑...即使是难过的时候, 被little louis惹恼的时候, 它们的偶然出现也会让心情变好 :") ... (又来了... 傻笑ing)

等了2年半, 那苦涩的远距离恋爱终于结束了, 漫长的等待是值得的... 他们就要开始一个每天都可以见到对方的新生活... 对于未知的未来, 他们带着既期待又怕受伤害的心情勇往直前... 不管有多少的ups and downs... 都会一起面对! 所以, 那一个月的假期... 是补偿也是奖励.

那整个月, 可以用无忧无虑, 逍遥自在来形容也不为过... 一切的人事物都让他们留下美好回忆, 毕竟这种体验是难能可贵, 绝对新鲜的, 尤其对baby ping 来说... 有时手牵手走在little louis生活了7年的街道上, 吃着他常吃的nando's chicken wings, 逛他常逛的supermarket... baby ping 也会激动... 因为一切的一切都和little louis 有关, 就像融入他的世界一样... 能不感动吗?

而且他们还共同体验了很多的"第一次"... gold coast 的sea world, movie world, wild wild wet, 冲浪... sydney的渡轮, 著名但不是特别好吃的chicken pie, 龙虾意大利面... great ocean road...可爱的koala bear, kangaroo, wombat... dolphin... 太多太多了... 还有那难忘的Kookaburra, 抢了我的cheese还会"狂笑"... 怪可怕的...
当然, 还有赌场... baby ping只对老虎机情有独钟哦... 那种不费脑力, 纯靠运气的游戏最得baby ping欢心了...

<<傻瓜和天才的对话>>
little louis: 那有什么好玩的? 一点都不能控制结局...
baby ping: 但是紧张刺激呀~ 你永远不会知道下一轮你会不会中大奖... 如果真的赢了... 就证明自己真的很好运... 不用绞尽脑汁的想着怎么赢... 轻轻松松的不好吗?
little louis: er... 我还是玩我的blackjack吧... 祝你好运.... :-)
baby ping: 以后你会给我钱玩老虎机吗? 在我老的时候...
little louis: er... 会... (但要看情况吧... 总不可能你运气不好然后把我整副身家输光光吧)
baby ping: 真的? 我好爱你哟... 老公...
little louis: hehe... (冒冷汗ing...)

呵呵... 希望以后还能去别的地方旅行... 留下更多的美好回忆于心中... 留下更多的足迹于世界...

Moody...

2006-09-18T09:49:00.000+08:00

yesterday nite, baby ping decided to cook dinner for little louis, they went to supermarket to buy the ingredient...
on their way back home, the plastic holder of the eggs(which carried by baby ping) accidentally scratched her leg...

baby ping : Ouch~ it hurts!
little louis : wat happened?
baby ping : sob sob... it's bleeding... (sound more serious to gain little louis's attention)
little louis : haha, luckily it's not me fault... else certainly u will scold me...
baby ping : (SHOCKED!!!) Is this wat u think at the 1st place?
little louis : er... er... let me c c... I help u to carry...
baby ping : no need! no need! U really disappointed me... hate u!!! hate u!!! hate u!!!
(she just want to know whether little louis cares abt her... so simple, yet so hard for little louis)

幸福的日子过得特别快...

2006-09-15T10:23:00.000+08:00

幸福很简单... 醒来睁开眼就看到自己心爱的人还睡在身旁, 看着他无辜的睡脸, 长长的睫毛(男生干嘛长这么长呀?)微微的动了动, 听着他平稳的呼吸声, 偶尔还会打个小呼... 可爱得不得了 :-) 再偷偷香一个, 然后在他的怀里找个好位子继续睡... (虽然他常埋怨每每醒来, 手臂都麻痹了! 她才不管呢, little louis 就是不能明白baby ping 要的幸福就只是这样赖着他... )

这几天baby ping 和 little louis 一起拿了假, 没去什么地方旅行, 就只是待在家里休息, 悠闲得很, 顺便庆祝911这个纪念日(都3年了... 真快). 而且上个礼拜他连续3个oncall, 有够累的... 是应该好好的给他照顾照顾一下 hehe...

爱睡觉的两人, 每天早上(er... 算中午吧...)都睡到自然醒, 精神也特别好. 一起用过午餐还能手牵手逛街... 真是超幸福的啦! 自从little louis工作以后, 他都好忙哦, 不忙时都好累... 更不用说还有心情陪baby ping逛街啦, 这次little louis主动提议, 她简直高兴死... 再请她看部cartoon片, 她就真的满足了... 这几天也没乱发脾气, 对他千依百顺的... 对吗, little louis? ;-p

依然范特西 - 周杰伦 Jay Chou

2006-09-07T13:04:00.000+08:00

Still fantasy... yes, Jay Chou's a legend... he's one of baby ping's favorite idols. Just can't deny that he is really a talented singer with cool personality. Most Importantly, little louis is his super fan, so, wat little louis likes, baby ping likes... cool yeah?

Jay's new album will be released tmr, baby ping oredi planned long ago to buy for little louis as a gift of their 3rd anniversary of 911. So excited, can wait to see how surprise he will be... he's gonna love it... :-)

very touch yeah? Hehe... baby ping oso hope that little louis will accompany her on that day, and, dun keep playing computer game or watch tv or reading or watever(as long as not talking to her, not playing with her... ) \(^o^)/

One last song

2006-09-06T13:36:00.000+08:00

Yeah~ baby ping finally found this song and can hear it everyday in the mp3 player. It was the the 1st love song that little louis send to her thru yahoo messenger when they just started dating... This song is really romantic, ok, at least for her.

Recently, she being day-dreaming about little louis singing this song for her on their wedding(so romantic, isn't it?)

Especially this part, her favorites...
I love you way too much, to wanna be the one who brings you down...

baby ping: only my loved one can bring me down, u know? And yes, that's u!... *shy*

"One Last Song"

Take my hand, touch my face

Let me feel your embrace

Let me see in your eyes

That you won't say goodbye

Just tell me how you feel

I don't know what you're thinking anymore

And if you need me, you'd kiss me

Then tell me how you feel

And if you want me, you'd show me

That your love is for real

And if you love me

You'd hold me in your arms where I belong

So while I'm feeling strong

I sing you one last song

Let me ask time has passed

Do you feel this could last

If you don't, why then stay

Take your wings, fly away

I love you way too much

To wanna be the one who brings you down

And if you need me, you'd kiss me

Then tell me how you feel

And if you want me, you'd show me

That your love is for real

And if you love me

You'd hold me in your arms where I belong

So while I'm feeling strong

I sing you one last song

One last song I sing for you

Like I always did

This time it's for real

I never come to you like this

Expecting you to turn my kiss

Oh no no no no no

And if you need me, you'd kiss me

Then tell me how you feel

And if you want me, you'd show me

That your love is for real

And if you love me

You'd hold me in your arms where I belong

So while I'm feeling strong

I sing you one last song

Oh yeah

I sing you one last song

baby ping sick again...

2006-09-05T09:20:00.000+08:00

baby ping's health becomes so poor after came to Spore... this is oredi the 2nd times.
miss little louis very much... everytime baby ping sick, little louis always can't stay by her side and take care of her? ... so disappointed...

little louis: hehe... y u look like very relaxing at home... is it u pretend to be sick?
baby ping: no no no, I am really sick, very sick, just pretend to be ok, so u wont be too worry abt me...
(but little louis never believes baby ping)

baby ping will never forget the very 1st time little louis take care of her when she was having fever... it was too funny! baby ping told little louis that she is allergy to painkiller(actually is "bufen")... then he gave her Aspirin(which still contain bufen), so... her face swollen... haha... and it took abt 2 days to get back to normal. Anyway, she still very happy as little louis told her that, "no matter how u look like, I still love u... just like always~" and kissed her... so sweet... :-)

... in the end, baby ping want to tell little louis that, girls are really easy to be pleased... dun u agree?

There's something that money can't buy...

2006-09-01T16:53:00.000+08:00

Dear little louis,

I want to tell u that, money is not everything(although without it, life will be miserable too). We oredi have enough of it, dun use all ur time to earn money for me(Coz money is not wat I want, I want u to accompany me, talk with me, play with me...) I know u want to make our life better, to ensure our future, but I need to tell u that, it's not making me happy now(useless to talk abt future if we r not going to have one)...
I love u, u r No.1 in my heart(just same level with my family), but I dunno where is my position in ur heart... after ur family, after u, after ur money or even ur frenz? U always have time for them but not me...

u claimed that u r bz... tired... but a single sms or call wont take u much time(have u ever think of me just like I think of u?)... u can spare time to do that for me last time(u should be bzier that time), y not now?

I miss u very much... really much...

Love,
baby ping

Why "little" louis and "baby" ping?

2006-08-31T10:24:00.000+08:00

Once upon a time, there were 2 little good friends...

little louis: halo, green sour apple... :-p
baby ping: little boy, u are very naughty... u know?
little louis: hey, I am not a boy, we r of same age...
baby ping: but... but... I am 9 days older than u, call me "big sister big"!
little louis: no way... it's just 9 days! In fact, my mom told me that I stayed longer in her womb, so it might happens that I am older than u...
baby ping: so what? If u dun like "boy", fine... I just call u "little louis", okie?
little louis: hmm... okie, but I will have to call u "baby ping" in that case...
baby ping: y?
little louis: hahaha... coz the level of "baby" is still lower than "little"... I am still older than u! :-p
baby ping & little louis: LOL~

The war ended and little louis won again!!!

2006-08-31T10:00:00.000+08:00

baby ping surrendered again, after little louis kept acting cute. So, the story is able to continue... :-p

They even shared laksa together(ohya, baby ping's auntie came to visit them with 12 packages of laksa, yummy!)

baby ping:no more next time ya!
little louis:okie okie, my dear... (with fingers crossed)

They had sweet dreams last nite :-) . And as always, she made him breakfast this morning...

Tonite little louis will be oncall, baby ping will sleep with her sister, Ling(as Chin went to Genting for holiday)... baby ping dun dare to sleep alone... hehe...

baby ping's heart hurts... T_T

2006-08-30T13:56:00.000+08:00

yesterday nite, little louis and baby ping quarreled again. she went to sleep with her younger sister, Chin. He dint come to ask for her forgiveness, really disappointed her. All she wants is just his concern only, maybe just a glass of ribena in time when she was bz ironing his clothes?

She dun understand y nowadays it is so hard for him to do something for her? She wonders if she dun ask from him, will he ever think of doing that for her? The answer is no, definitely.

Before that, he claimed that he dunno wat she wants everytimes when she was mad at him for not doing something that she wished he should. So, She learnt how to open her mouth and requests, just in case he dunno... but, he started to lose patience and sometimes even quarrel with her and blamed her for too demanding.

Of course, this is not the 1st time and she believes that if she can't give up the love to him, then it will never be the last time either. She loves him so much. Just now, she got back those emails he wrote to her few yrs ago and read... all the words r so sweet, all the good memories came back to her mind... She feels a bit warm in her heart, she got her 1st smile since yesterday nite when reading the sentence "I know I owe u time". Now, after writing this blog, she decided to forgive him(if he shows his sincerity to ask for forgiveness tonite)

... to be continued